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Asked by Jude (32134points) September 12th, 2011

Fellas, do you like to have your nipples sucked/played with (by your partner)? Just wondering how common it is.

I find it a huge turn-on when I am with a guy, if he likes having his nipples sucked and played with.

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woodcutter's avatar

Yeah, and a litle biting too;/

Imadethisupwithnoforethought's avatar

Not at all, kinda weird.

marinelife's avatar

I like it too Jude, but alas my husband says that he gets nothing out of it.

Scooby's avatar

It’s not something I’ve been comfortable with in the past, if it meant so much to her though, then I’d play along :-/ no party poopers here. Besides, it would be my turn next……..

zenvelo's avatar

I have enjoyed it. But I have had a pretty low percentage of partners that tried it. I don’t think it crosses most women’s mind.

Blackberry's avatar

I like it, but I’m way too ticklish to enjoy it.

FutureMemory's avatar

I don’t like it. It just tickles, and is not erotic to me at all. But I’d do my best to make an exception in your case, Jude.

King_Pariah's avatar

It’s nice, but like @zenvelo said, doesn’t seem like it crosses a lot of gals minds.

wundayatta's avatar

If it’s sexual, I’m probably going to enjoy it. I do like having my nipples sucked. But please don’t stop with my nipples. I also enjoy a lot of touch that would tickle me ordinarily (stroking my sides, for example). In ordinary life, it is very annoying. During sex, it drives me crazy.

ANef_is_Enuf's avatar

My husband hates it. I can see him resisting the urge to smack me away if I mess with them, not unlike the way someone reacts when they hate being tickled and someone tickles them.

Cruiser's avatar

Heck yeah! No biting please…OK…a little! ;)

GladysMensch's avatar

I’m into it if she’s into it.

poisonedantidote's avatar

Sounds pointless, can’t recall it every happening. I have been kissed on the chest, no nipple play though. I’d give it a shot, but I doubt I wold get anythng from it.

rebbel's avatar

Don’t you fucking touch them…..
One time my girlfriend nibbled on one and she then bit it…...
I screamed like a pig and sexy time was over that day.
Wished they were erogenous attributes though, since I see that my girl’s’ are highly arousing (for her and for me)...

Only138's avatar

I enjoy it none. Not my thing.

mazingerz88's avatar

This might sound off as weird. I like to pull a woman’s head so she could suck on my nipple but only if I’m having shallow steamy sex and if she’s only a part time sex partner. Love it doing a missionary position and she clings hard, her face pressed, lips sucking it.

If it’s after a few years of live in relationship, I didn’t like it anymore from the same partner. Weird.

HungryGuy's avatar

Never had it done to me, so maybe I’ll try it just to see. But it’s my guess that men’s nipples aren’t erogenous zones the way women’s nipples are.

TexasDude's avatar

I used to, but then I became really damn ticklish.

mrrich724's avatar

I don’t care, but if she wants to, then I don’t care either, LOL

augustlan's avatar

Not a man, but I’ve been with men who loved it, hated it (sensitive nipples/ticklish), and didn’t care one way or another. It really seems to vary. My husband falls into the second category, which sucks (no pun intended) for me, because it’s something I like to do.

LuckyGuy's avatar

I like it exactly as much as my partner does. If she likes it, I like it. If not, I’ll pass.
But down below? That’s a completely different story.

downtide's avatar

Hell no to the nth degree. Mine seem to be abnormally sensitive – TOO sensitive, it’s physically uncomfortable.

MRSHINYSHOES's avatar

Yes. Played with, not so much sucked.

poisonedantidote's avatar

I’m not going to be happy now until I get my nipples sucked.

digitalimpression's avatar

No. Leave em alone. You don’t like them that much anyway.

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

Go for it. I love it. They’re not overly sensitive so get a little rough.

boxer3's avatar

@poisonedantidote , I don’t know why but that just struck me really funny.

El_Cadejo's avatar

I like a woman playing with any part of my body in a sexual manner.

well minus z arse. That’s an exit only thank ya very much :P

Jude's avatar

@uberbatman No in through the out door.. out door?

DrBill's avatar

yes, very much

Randy's avatar

Eh… Like a lot here, I don’t care either way. It feels good the same way that sucking on almost any part of the body does but it’s not a turn on or anything. At least, not the way it is for my lady and most of the ones before her.

Hibernate's avatar

For me it mainly depends on the mood. I’d rather play with them then to get them played with.

Jude's avatar

Boys, what about assplay? You know, for shits and giggles.

woodcutter's avatar

Assplay and shit plus giggles?

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

I think if she wanted to I’d let her go at it.

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

I’m really bad. Someone says try this I say why not.

Jude's avatar

Nothing wrong about that. Being adventurous is a good thing.

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

I’m more than adventurous. I’ll try anything.

Jude's avatar

My kinda guy. :)

Jude's avatar

I don’t just mean sex. I mean in a lot ways. I like someone who is adventurous. :)

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

We live by the rule you don’t know if you don’t try. It works great sometimes,not so great other times.

zenvelo's avatar

@uberbatman You’d be surprised what tickling your prostate does to your level of enjoyment…

cockswain's avatar

Nah, never really liked it much. I do like blow jobs though, and would strongly encourage that instead.

ETpro's avatar

Mine are pretty sensitive. Sends shivers down my spine to have them kissed or sucked. So that would be a definite Yes.

Imadethisupwithnoforethought's avatar

As a follow up answer, I have never let it proceed to ass play, and probably would not enjoy it.

I am mildly touch phobic while I love to touch females. I wonder if you asked in a few weeks, “who is touch phobic?”, those who said yes would correlate to the answers you have here

augustlan's avatar

You boys who say “no” to the assplay don’t know what you’re missin’. Just sayin’.

ETpro's avatar

@augustlan I know what they are missing. And the more men turn ladies who like that away, the happier a camper I am. :-)

Blackberry's avatar

I just can’t make that leap into the ass. I would only do that with someone I was with years and years lol.

wundayatta's avatar

As I recall, assplay can be very exciting. My wife, however, is not at all into it. But I am (or was) very adventuresome, sexually. I wouldn’t try everything (not golden showers or anything having to do with excrement and no bestiality and no bondage or torture), but I would try a lot and enjoyed a lot of what I tried. My wife is pretty conservative sexually, so most of that stopped when I got married.

Scooby's avatar

I came close to nearly being bummed by a lass, she had this thing were she liked to wear a strap on, I maybe wouldn’t have taken exception so much if we had at least talked about it, instead she just produced the thing & said “I want to use this on ya” :-/
kind of awkward silence then tactical subject change saved the day… I don’t think I’m missing out on anything much, as the last time I had my prostrate checked it was as uncomfortable as the time before that :-/ And that was just a finger, no thanks……
Besides, what about the mess!?

Jude's avatar

Guys taking it up the bum by a lass is extremely hot (for me). I like him to jack-off at the same time.

Blackberry's avatar

@Jude If I did like it up my rectal passage, that might feel pretty good.

wundayatta's avatar

I’ll never understand how plastic can be an acceptable substitute for the real thing. These lesbian scenes with strapons… I mean, if you want a cock, why not just get it? It can’t be that hard difficult to find.

El_Cadejo's avatar

yea exactly what scooby said had prostate exams before not a fan. Obviously I know its very different when in a sexual situation and what not but if 1 little finger was that uncomfortable I cant really see me enjoying anything more than that.

Jude's avatar

@wundayatta I works for me. The sensation, that is.

Aspire's avatar

My boyfriend likes his nipples played with, he likes it very gently though, like a feather.

Paradox1's avatar

Yes… but it has only been done once.

FutureMemory's avatar

Ass play? Hmmm…never tried it. I can’t say that the idea is very exciting though. I’d be willing to let a girl try to make it exciting though…I think.

zooloft's avatar

No, I don’t like it at all. Maybe they are just too sensitive.

choreplay's avatar

Regarding the nipples, let’s put it this way, my wife calls those the turbo sex buttons. She has actually learned exactly when to titillate them to put me over the top when she wants me to.

whiteroseman's avatar

I absolutely love it – my nipples are my most erogenous area and as we get going I like it to get harder/rougher up to a bit of chewing and biting!

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