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Where to volunteer to find hot girls?

Asked by marmoy (65points) September 26th, 2011

I know this must sound awful to go volunteering in search for girls. But from my point of view I’m killing 2 birds with one stone.

Basically I need some volunteer hours for my resume, just freshen it up a bit. And I’m wondering where is a good place to volunteer and meet girls at the same time?

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King_Pariah's avatar

PETA haven’t you seen their ads?

Joker94's avatar

No words, man. No words.. Be a lifeguard.

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King_Pariah's avatar

@Joker94 except that tends to be a part time/ seasonal job not volunteer work.

talljasperman's avatar

Peace Corps?

lillycoyote's avatar

Volunteer at one of your local cat rescue and adoption organizations. They could certainly use the help and girls love cats and girls love guys who love cats. :-)

gorillapaws's avatar

Charities related to children would probably be a good starting place. Honestly, you’re probably going to meet women who like helping others and don’t mind rolling up their sleeves and doing hard work, which is a hell-of-a-lot better than most of the chicks you’ll meet in a bar. Good luck, and let us know how it works out for you (and the kids).

GladysMensch's avatar

Going with @lillycoyote on this one. Volunteer at an animal shelter or humane society. I teach at a tech college (not in vet tech), and the female/male ratio in the vet tech area is at least 10–1.

blueiiznh's avatar

Volunteer with fundraisers like walk-athon, bike-athon.
Just make sure you are there to do a job no matter what you choose in this double agent super double secret mission should you choose to accept it.

choreplay's avatar

Local community theater

answerjill's avatar

If it meshes with your politics, you could try volunteering with a feminist organization or some other group that deals with “women’s issues” (most of which really should be “human” issues anyway). Those orgs have tons of women and a much smaller percentage of women (I would guess), so you will have less competition. Plus, you will earn brownie points from the ladies for being pro-woman. Of course, I would not suggest that you go this route unless you actually care about the organization’s mission and, as @blueiiznh said, make sure that you are really there to do the work that you committed yourself to. I hope this did not sound too Machiavellian… Oh, and yes, I do realize that there will probably be a significant number of women there who are not romantically interested in men.

blueiiznh's avatar

You could also volunteer at the Library. Librarians are hot!

cockswain's avatar

Porn shoots.

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Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

oh yeah you should join the hollaback! collective. yep.

Dog's avatar

I do appreciate your honesty.

But the thing is that if you volunteer doing something you are INTERESTED in then any relationship you make will be based on common interest and be a lot better.

So don’t volunteer at a cat shelter if you hate cats.
Don’t help out kids if you detest them.
Find something you can truly BELIEVE in and then you are not only killing two birds with one stone but also being sincere to yourself and anyone else you are attracted to.

lillycoyote's avatar

@Dog That’s true, but I believe the OP is a bit of a volunteer mercenary: he needs volunteer resume hours and want to meet “hot girls.” I didn’t get the impression that he was looking for meaningful relationships. :-)

Though, yes, @marmoy, if you do hate cats or dogs, please, please don’t volunteer at a shelter, rescue organization or humane society. They don’t want you and the “girls” will see through you in a minute. But you like kitties, don’t you? :-) However, for shelter work you have to like kitties and kitty shit and all other types of kitty effluvia and nonsense.

WestRiverrat's avatar

Join a volunteer fire department or EMS service.

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Dog's avatar

@lillycoyote – Even for casual flings, meaningful relationships one must have a basis of sincerity.

wundayatta's avatar

Join a feminist organization. Better yet, join a lesbian feminist organization. Don’t be worried. There’s a lot of hot girls in such organizations, and some of them are into guys. Only problem, you have to be a feminist, too. But look at it this way. When I was fresh out of college, I worked for the ERA. There were thirty people in the office and only two of them were men.

Not that that really helped me… at least not then…. but that’s another story.

lillycoyote's avatar

@Dog Well, those days are way over for me, one of those childish things I put away when I grew up, but… sincerity was generally not a requirement for me, at all, for a fling, or a casual encounter. But, like I said, I don’t do that kind of thing anymore. I much prefer sincerity and meaningfulness now. Though, now that I think about it, it has kind of been a long time… I think I might actually go for a totally insincere, totally meaningless, totally casual encounter right about now. :-)

Aethelflaed's avatar

One word of caution about joining a feminist organization: Really, only do it if you have examined your own beliefs and really believe in this cause as your cause. If you once heard that women should have rights, and thought “yeah, that sounds like a good idea”, but then sorta stopped that exploration there, they will probably eat you up. Most women in those organizations don’t have much of a problem with using it to meet people who share the same beliefs, because meeting people (especially men) who believe those things can be hard, but they also don’t have any problem giving you A Lecture if you come out and say something like “yeah, rape is bad, but you know what’s really bad? When women falsely accuse men of rape.” And they won’t accept “Ladies, ladies – I’m a total feminist, why are you yelling at me?” for an excuse. Sadly, I’ve seen this happen a few too many times…

Really, any organization where you really believe in the cause is going to be good for meeting women. Most women love a man who’s passionate about his beliefs and does something about them other than talk about it over beer, so the fact that you’re getting involved will be a woman-magnet.

WestRiverrat's avatar

@Aethelflaed unless of course you brewed the beer and named it after the woman you are talking to.

lillycoyote's avatar

@Aethelflaed A man feigning a belief in feminism for the sole purpose of trying to get into some hot feminist’s pants is pretty much up there with “worst ideas ever.” :-)

Aethelflaed's avatar

@lillycoyote It’s always strange, because it’s like these men are under the impression that the women don’t spend good portions of their time honing their skills in spotting liars and fakers… But yeah, it ends badly (and hilariously, for me).

mazingerz88's avatar

Ok this might sound rather awful but volunteering in a big nursing home facility might do the trick. If you have one near you which has a volunteer program, chances are there are young women there and there’s nothing sexier than a guy who spoon feeds a senior! Lol. Better than walking your dog, see?

Visited a nursing home twice in a month and every time I saw pretty girls volunteering, presiding over senior recreational activities throughout the day.

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prioritymail's avatar

At something that interests you, for starters.

choreplay's avatar

@wundayatta reminded me of something, in college I took lots of dance classes, jazz, modern, tapp and social. What motivations were behind this you ask, forty girls (in tights) and two guys. Even better, the other guy wasn’t interested in the girls (yes, you will have to deflect his advances). There are some good ratios for you, and I can now tap dance to boot.

creative1's avatar

Big numbers of girls often volunteered to do gift wrapping, maybe brush up on your skills it begins after Thanksgiving.

XOIIO's avatar

Despero-corp? Shallow-R-us?

Hopefully you are looking for an actualrelationship, not just some body to objectize.

cockswain's avatar

Did anyone ever see that episode of “It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia” where the gang went to an abortion rally to meet women?

choreplay's avatar

Reminds me of the movie “About a Boy” where he realizes the single moms don’t want to commit to a relationship.

wundayatta's avatar

I think it is generally difficult to judge the sincerity of questions like this. Yes, it is possible to have ulterior motives such as finding a woman for a relationship and still be sincere about your beliefs in the organization’s work. I think it is even possible to have a motive of wanting to find someone to boink, and still believe in the organization.

But when you want to find someone to boink and you cynically use the organization to find that woman and don’t really care about the organization’s goals, that’s where I think you cross over into utter sleaziness and you deserve to get your head handed to you. Preferably decorated with a a high heeled shoe sticking out of your skull. I have no loyalty to men if they happen to be assholes. The same is true of women who happen to be assholes. I prefer respectful, kind people of either sex who take the time to find out what a person means before jumping to unwarranted conclusions.

Strauss's avatar

I would agreee with the general sentiment of many of the above posts…volunteer for something that interests you. That would automatically create some common interests with any young women you might meet.

lillycoyote's avatar

@wundayatta I don’t think it’s difficult to judge the sincerity of this question at all. While I may not admire the OP’s mercenary approach to volunteer work, he has been completely honest about why he’s doing it. The OP states that he needs “some volunteer hours for my resume” and that he want to meet some “hot girls” while he’s doing it. I may respect the approach but at least he’s being honest that his motives basically are all ulterior.

lillycoyote's avatar

@wundayatta That last sentence was supposed to read: “I may not respect the approach but at least he’s being honest that his motives basically are all ulterior.”

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