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(NSFW) Love or sex? Which is your fantasy?

Asked by Blueroses (18256points) October 18th, 2011

Ideally, in the situation you are in at this exact moment (assuming no repercussions or entanglements), would you rather have fairy-tale romance or fulfillment of all your sexual desires?

I know, I know. In reality, you’d like both with the same person but indulge my question. Which would you like most right this second?

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HungryGuy's avatar

Sex. Kinky sex!

Blueroses's avatar

heh, heh @HungryGuy It was your answer on another thread that inspired my question.

Blackberry's avatar

Fairy-tale romance sex.

Imadethisupwithnoforethought's avatar

Fairy-tale romance.

I have gotten pretty good at giving myself a handjob just the way I like it.

KateTheGreat's avatar

Fairy-tale romance.

I’m sorta kinda a hopeless romantic.

TheIntern55's avatar

This moment? Sex. Usually? Love.

King_Pariah's avatar

The disappointed hopeless romantic in me (aka the cynic) dreams of fairytale romance… But’ll settle for a steamy kinky fuck.

Only138's avatar

SEX, SEX, SEX. FTW :)

creative1's avatar

True love and romance, you can always find just sex anywhere…. men always offer that but real true love will be something you can work through anything with. I find sex is hotter and more intenese when you love someone.

Aethelflaed's avatar

Sex. I would rather have love, but not if the form it comes in is fairy-tale romance. That, I’d like to avoid with or without sex.

ANef_is_Enuf's avatar

I don’t really understand why my one word answer got more GAs than the same answers in this thread. lol.

Blueroses's avatar

Mwah ha @ANef_is_Enuf. It was concise.
We don’t need no stinking justifications.
Just a simple. “sex”.

thank you.

Joker94's avatar

Fairy-tale romance.

Neizvestnaya's avatar

Fairytale romance, please.

beccagolling's avatar

all of my sexual desires of course!

Joker94's avatar

“The greatest thing you’ll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return.”

Blueroses's avatar

lurving @Joker94 for the Moulin Rouge reference

ddude1116's avatar

I want to have a romance that could very well have been written by Jane Austen, but from a guy’s perspective.

Joker94's avatar

Lurving @Blueroses in general.

wundayatta's avatar

If she filled all my sexual desires, you can be damn sure she loved me with a passion that could burn down London. Desire is everything!

blueiiznh's avatar

Love. It’s so much more powerful.

Berserker's avatar

I don’t know what love is. And I rarely have sex. Just give me a sword, and send me on my way. Everyone will be happier with that outcum.

Also, love. I’d like to find someone, and often have fantasies lol.

MRSHINYSHOES's avatar

I second @HungryGuy ‘s answer. Yes, nice, kinky,all night, repeated sex.

FutureMemory's avatar

My heart is more sensitive than my penis, so I gotta go with Love, every time.

MRSHINYSHOES's avatar

@FutureMemory Lol-lol. Excellent play on words! I like that one.

FutureMemory's avatar

I would add that either of them without the other sucks. When I love someone I want to lay the pipe constantly.

Laying pipe without love doesn’t feel right to me, though.

Hibernate's avatar

Can I go for neither? If sex is just for the “need” then you feel empty after it. If it’s a romance that won’t last you’ll get the soar feeling again. Just me.

ucme's avatar

I’d like to hump Pocahontas please, if she was up for it of course.
Kind of kills 2 birds with one stone, good eh?

Keep_on_running's avatar

Fairy-tale romance.

AnonymousWoman's avatar

I strongly desire love. Sex by itself without love is not that satisfying for me in a long-term sexual relationship. It can feel quite empty, meaningless, and hollow.

Strauss's avatar

What if I just love sex?

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