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[NSFW] Jellies who like men: have you ever had this issue associated with a specific act (details)

Asked by ANef_is_Enuf (26839points) November 7th, 2011

Do you get a cut or a swollen ridge on the inside of your lips after performing fellatio? Not something related to an infection or STD, I’m talking about a cut from where the inside of your lip touches your teeth. In my experience, it usually breaks the skin from my lips being basically suctioned to my teeth for an extended period of time… and then it will take 2–3 days to heal.
I was talking to a friend and he said that it has never happened to him, so it made me wonder if it’s common… or if I’m doing something “wrong” and can avoid it.

It’s taking me a while to work up the nerve to post this. heh.

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rebbel's avatar

Love that euphemism you used!
“Honey, do you want to give me a specific act tonight?!”

ANef_is_Enuf's avatar

@rebbel I took forever trying to think of a “safe” way to word this in the title. lol.

Hawaii_Jake's avatar

I’ve had very minor cuts or tears after performing fellatio, but it was never anything that needed to heal. In other words, it was so minor I didn’t notice it after an hour or 2.

I don’t know how to describe where I put my lips other than to say the tips of them go over the teeth.

ANef_is_Enuf's avatar

@Hawaii_Jake that’s pretty much how it works for me, too. They just cover my teeth, but the suction itself pushes my teeth into the inside of my lip. It’s not like a little scratch, it’s literally like I can set my teeth right into the space that is damaged. So, I know that is what it’s from.. it’s like they leave a long term indent in my lip. There doesn’t seem to be a problem with the effectiveness of my technique, just that it causes me injury.

Hawaii_Jake's avatar

@ANef_is_Enuf : That doesn’t sound fun at all. I wish I knew what to suggest, but I can’t think of a thing.

ANef_is_Enuf's avatar

Well, crap. Until today I just assumed it happened to everyone.

rebbel's avatar

@ANef_is_Enuf I maybe know something to suggest but I am not sure if your partner would be thrilled by your appearance if you put a cover over your teeth (as a protective lair)...
Like these? ;-)

downtide's avatar

Doesn’t happen to me either. Are your teeth rough on the edges, or chipped?

ANef_is_Enuf's avatar

@downtide nope, my teeth are pretty run of the mill.
I don’t get it. I wish I knew what I was doing “wrong.” It never occurred to me before that this could be prevented.
@rebbel I’ll run it past him. ;)

Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

Ouch, sounds hurty. Never had the problem. Is it lack of lubrication? Also, I’m sitting here making blowjob faces ‘cause I’m trying to figure out how your lips gets stuck to teeth for long periods of time. Thankfully, all my terminally ill patients are done with theit tx and have gone home, lol.

ANef_is_Enuf's avatar

@Simone_De_Beauvoir definitely not a lack of lubrication. Glad I’m not the only one making faces while I try to figure this out.

augustlan's avatar

Can you kind of pull your lips back from your teeth, at least part of the time? Sounds like you all need to do some experimenting. Could be fun!

ANef_is_Enuf's avatar

@augustlan I’m trying to picture what you mean. I mean, my mouth doesn’t stay in the same “form” the whole time, of course, but I think that I do keep my teeth covered somehow at all times. I think. I guess I will pay more attention next time. lol.
I can’t believe it is just me. My mind is kind of blown, no pun intended.

KateTheGreat's avatar

Never happens to me! Weird.

augustlan's avatar

@ANef_is_Enuf Sort of like this, but, you know, sexier. :p

Ponderer983's avatar

Doesn’t happen to me – and like others I am making the face as well to figure it out lol. I guess it’s just how much suction you create and now that area is prone to these cuts because it seems like you repeatedly get them in the same place. That kinda sucks (haha pun not intended).

WillWorkForChocolate's avatar

That’s actually happened to me a few times. You are not alone, lol.

Now I’m sitting here, imagining all of you making “blowjob faces” and I can’t stop laughing.

ANef_is_Enuf's avatar

I asked another friend, and she said it happens to her. She said sometimes it affects the insides of her cheeks, also… so I’m not completely alone. I’m glad I got everyone to make silly faces, though, that’s good stuff.

BeccaBoo's avatar

Nope, but maybe I just got a big mouth lol

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

Maybe you’re trying to go too deep and use too much suction. The first two inches are the most sensitive say maybe work that with your mouth and wrap your hands around the rest. I hate to think it’s hurting my s/o to do certain things for me.

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