Is this request too much to ask of a partner or SO?
Say that your partner travels a lot for a job and his flights often leave really early. Is it out of line for you to ask them to have their things packed the night before so they aren’t turning on bright lights and rummaging around in the bedroom and waking you up at 5.30am? Especially because you are working long hours and/or looking after small children?
What would you say if your partner gets huffy and put-out by your request?