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Men: When you look at your SO is it like looking at a party?

Asked by JLeslie (60525points) December 31st, 2011

Are you thinking how amazing she looks? How lucky you are she will have you? About her always being available for sex (I understand it is not always, I am not saying women must perform any time a man demands it). That no matter if she is not in “perfect” shape you love every piece of her, and still get a big thrill out of seeing her naked. Are you in awe of how lucky you are? Do you think of being with her and have every exoectation of enjoying yourself? Do you wonder why women don’t know how beautiful they are?

I’m interested how long you have been with your SO, and if this has changed over time during your relationship?

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Charles's avatar

Are you thinking how amazing she looks? Not amazing but good enough for me.

How lucky you are she will have you? I guess luck is a decent word to describe it. People get along or they don’t and often if they don’t it isn’t because either one is bad – it’s usually because of bad chemistry. Good chemistry is good luck. All the chicks I broke up with weren’t bad people – it was just bad chemistry.

About her always being available for sex (I understand it is not always, I am not saying women must perform any time a man demands it). Pretty much.

That no matter if she is not in “perfect” shape you love every piece of her, and still get a big thrill out of seeing her naked. Yep.

Are you in awe of how lucky you are? Not in awe but still feel lucky.

Do you think of being with her and have every exoectation of enjoying yourself? That sounds about right, I think.

Do you wonder why women don’t know how beautiful they are? I don’t think about that I’m looking at them.

I’m interested how long you have been with your SO, and if this has changed over time during your relationship? Fifteen years and it’s been fairly constant.

smilingheart1's avatar

Wow, no time to feel cold today! Love makes everything fresh and new, a continual updating…romance begins and is sustained by admiration and respect! Marvellous. Some secrets are hidden from those who are not in the right place to unlock them.

ANef_is_Enuf's avatar

I’m positive that he doesn’t, but I miss the days when he did.

rooeytoo's avatar

hehehe, well since when I look at him I do not feel all that original excitement and love blindness, I am assuming he doesn’t either. Our love has gone from all that newness and excitement (that’s the only word I can think of to describe new love) to something comfortable and reliable and predictable. I guess some would find that boring, but to me it is real life and I love it and him.

judochop's avatar

Sometimes I do. Sometimes I don’t. It depends on a lot of factors. Although, she does not need to be wearing anything special or doing anything at all for me to have one of those moments of “damn, I am quite lucky.”
There are plenty of times that I do not feel lucky at all also.
Relationships take work. I would move on if she stopped taking time to make things special and I would expect the same from her. Although we get relaxed, jogging pants are never an excusable choice for dinner.

SavoirFaire's avatar

Yes.

We’ve been together for 10 years. No change.

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