Do you like being fooled in some circumstances and not others?

If a woman colors her hair or puts on makeup, do you prefer that to seeing her as she naturally is? Is that fooling you into thinking she is something other than what she is? If a man shaves his head bald instead of showing some hair wherever it still grows, do you prefer that to seeing what his hair pattern really is? Is that fooling you or is it something else?

If a woman pretends she loves you while she is busy having an affair with another man, do you prefer that? Or do you want to see her as she really is? This may seem like an obvious question, but please take it seriously and try to get into clear reasons: how is this kind of fooling or deceit different from the kind of deceit involved in hair coloring and other techniques to disguise the natural looks of your head or face?