Is it a good thing to react well to a break up?

Going through break up is extremely hard for everyone, and in the past few days I have cut my self off completely from my recent partner and gone through quite a few emotions. I’ve cried alot, felt like I was in total agony but even though he has been abusive and hurtful before why do I need to be the same? He sent me a couple of long text messages one day ago and I ignored him completely. From what I gathered from the messages it sounded like he was breaking up with me, it explained I love you, we can’t keep hurting eachother, I am so sorry, after what I did I dont think you would want me etc. I couldn’t sleep from crying in the past 3 nights but tonight I realised all I ever did was love him. He need’s therapy and help to get over his anger issues and I know he is a good guy. So today I sent him a quick message over facebook saying

since you really broke up with me, I’m just letting you know I still have quite a few of your things, (named a few items), if you want I can pass these items to a friend anytime, or if you want to come by and collect them yourself oneday its no problem, please let me know if i left anything at your place.
Hope you are feeling much better (he has been sick lately) Please take better care of yourself, and quit smoking for good, live a healthier life xox
You are a good guy, you just need some help with your anger and take action, take care xox

please let me know if this was a good idea, I feel like I have given myself a little bit of relief and my love for him is deep and passionate but I don’t know what he wants right now… all I can do is be civil and show kindess.