Becoming the best possible version of yourself?

I want to become the best possible version of myself by taking small steps, focusing on different aspects of my life.

Some aspects I thought of are: appearance, health, self-esteem, kindness, intellect, social, and family.
It’s also important to remember you are NOT competing with other people.

For me, my goals are:
Appearance – No acne, six-pack, taller
Health – Stronger, eat healthier
Self-esteem (appearance helps) – No anxiety, less awkward
Kindness – Compliment and help others more often.
Intellect – Stop procrastinating, pay attention in class
Social – Make more friends, never be afraid to speak up, always have something to talk about, know how to keep a conversation going, make light jokes on the spot, be more comfortable and open with friends about girls and personal stuff.
Family – Be nicer and more open.

What steps can I take to reach my goals? How do you want to improve yourself?

*This thread’s intention is to help each other reach our goals.