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How to avoid a long-lost niece who doesn't remember me? Hints aren't working.
So my niece lives a thousand miles away and has no memory of ever meeting me. I found her on Facebook and I’ve sent her many childhood photos. She still mentioned flying to meet me at our house. I am not keen on that due to extremely unfortunate occurrences involving my brother (her father) and her mother. She is obsessed with them, which is normal, but it is such a depressing story I would rather leave our connection where it is. But now she wants my phone number and I fear hurting her feelings. I will give her my number but how do I tell her this is as far as I wish to go? What do I say when or if she pesters me for a reunion over the phone? I want to be nice and I have. She’s very grateful for the family photos that I gave up to make her happy and they did, I thought. Last I saw her she was two.
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