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Should I call, or should I wait?

Asked by mowens (8403points) June 15th, 2012

Although I am aware that this is the age old question, I have decided my every move will be decided by the collective.

I am a 28 year old gay male. I am really good at getting first dates. Those I de

I get excited. It is so rare that I meet someone that I want to go on multiple dates with (I know, I need to be more open minded) Anyway, I met a guy on Wednesday and we had a great night. I think he had fun too.. because he said so. That being said, it is now Friday. I texted him a bit yesterday, but I think that I am normally overzealous and communicate too much… so I let him say the last thing yesterday and haven’t said anything else yet. Before we went on our date, we talked on the phone all the time, whenever I had time because I was really busy at the beginning of the week. On our date, we both talked about how we were both terrible with the rules of dating… and we usually end up texting or whatever anyway.

Now, I want to call him when I am driving to my parents for the weekend just to say hi, and see how things are going. Is that weird after one date? Or should I wait for another day or two? Just curious on opinions… should I wait? The last “real” thing I said was “Regroup sundayish?” (because we are both busy until then.. so I figured id just talk to him on Sunday)

For the record I hate this crap. I just like him and want to talk to him again. This shouldn’t be a bad thing. Grr. Thanks all.

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