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Guy stopped talking to me, should I talk to him before he leaves?

Asked by Applesauce (4points) June 29th, 2012

We were seeing each other and he would text me a lot, then when I went on a vacation, I came back and he didn’t seem interested anymore and stopped texting or hanging out. He’s moving soon and i don’t know if I should even say a last farewell or not. haventreally talked to him

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elbanditoroso's avatar

No, don’t. let him go. He’s leaving anyway, so any connection you would create would be short and non-fruitful. Move on.

Thammuz's avatar

Do you WANT to talk to him?

Kokoro's avatar

Does it seem like he cares about saying farewell to you?

chyna's avatar

What could it hurt to just tell him goodbye and that you wish him well?
I would reach out to him. I think you would have more regrets by not saying goodbye than if you ignored him.

marinelife's avatar

Take his lack of communication as a lack of interest.

disquisitive's avatar

No; he’s a memory now.

ZEPHYRA's avatar

Give him the cold shoulder.

LuckyGuy's avatar

I’m with @chyna. A proper goodbye is like a bridge. And bridges should never be burned without very good reason. You might never need it but it is good to know it’s there.
Say a proper good bye, swap contact info, wish him well, then do not contact him again.

Applesauce's avatar

It’s awkward if I do though rite? Do I call him or ask to meet up a last time? What if he says he has no time?

NostalgicChills's avatar

If he cared, he wouldn’t have stopped talking to you. I wouldn’t even give him the time of day. Move on.

Sunny2's avatar

I’m with @LuckyGuy Text him to say goodby and wish him well. Don’t ask him to take time to see you. You never know what the future holds.

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kristinanderson's avatar

He can live without you, sad to say that. That was opinion.

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