Did I prematurely end dating him?

I am 35 and have started dating this guy from out of state.We have been dating for about a month. He’s gone out of his way to drive the distance to see me. He makes efforts to plan our weekends and we go on trips often. He calls everyday. However, we used to talk for an hour everyday but that has slowed a bit. He makes references to me meeting his family and wanting a girlfriend but then later says he doesn’t want to settle down. We haven’t been intimate. I started getting on his case about his inconsistencies which led to him saying he just wanted to date and have fun. He admitted he just got out of a bad relationship. I ended it because I wanted long term. Am I wrong?