Why am I finding it so difficult to tolerate [insert word]?

It isn’t ignorance because that connotes a lack of information or knowledge. The word I am seeking means that people don’t care if something is right or wrong, they simply agree with it because it seems like a quality that can be accepted because it works or worked for someone else. As I learn to reason more in depth about the etymology of words and understand meta-ethics, I am having a hard time controlling my tolerance for human understanding and compassion. It is bothering me more that people do not want to ask why. Is there something I can read or listen to or watch that can help relieve this stressor? I was very tolerant of ignorance and [the word I seek], but it seems that I am apexing and will blow up altogether. Help!