Is your home in order?

I recently had two young friends lose their mothers suddenly. I remember the shock they felt of course as they discussed it, their sadness, and sense of loss. But both said the same things oddly. That while they were clearing away their deceased mother’s homes and belongings they found things which shocked them.

One of the moms was having an affair with this daughter’s father! They had been divorced for some 30 years. I think she was quite happy about that. Other comments were how surprised they were to find things like, my mom stacked her shoes in an odd fashion, or my mom was storing water for some reason in huge vats. I would hate to think if I died suddenly people would be clearing my home and finding odd things!! How do you feel about it?