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What is the difference between a personal boundary and an ultimatum?

Asked by Unbroken (10746points) December 8th, 2012

Boundaries are in place to protect you. Ultimatum’s are used to either force a person into compliance with you or create some sort of negative consequence.

I realize the intent is different. Maybe not. Boundaries are for self protection, ultimatum’s are also a form of protection. I mean the methodology and execution is wrong. But isn’t the intent the same?

What is different about the execution? Meaning this is a non negotiable issue for the person its compliance or a change in the relationship. either diminished importance or walking away completely.

This could be in an established relationship you were never comfortable in or in new and budding ones.

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