We can change lives by inspiration and attraction or we can rant and rave, which one are you?

I have met many inspiring people in my lifetime. I can remember wishing desperately I had what they had. These people often changed my life, or thoughts or ideas on society and people.

You also get aggressive hard nuts, that try to bash home a point. This simply turns me off. Which one are you? And how is it working out for you? Details are much appreciated. On your methods, and how other methods have worked on you too.