If Fluther is a community, and we are all anonymous anyway - why do so many abandon it so easily and readily?

We often call Fluther our “community” and not just a Q and A forum, however, many find it easy to quit – sometimes because of just one jelly (who is but one anonymous person). Why is that? Would you abandon your real life community because of one person? Wouldn’t you stand your ground? Weather the storm?

And aren’t you as reseponsible to the community as it is to you, that is, shouldn’t you stick it out despite the aggravation because you, too, are the community and others depend on you?

Any way you slice it – I don’t get people who up and leave – whatever their so-called reason. I’ve explained why. What’s your take on this touchy subject?