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What do you think of this?

Asked by the_overthinker (1532points) January 25th, 2013

So, I showed my boyfriend a lot of new places around our city, and I felt happy that I was introducing to him, new places that he really liked! We had our smoothie shop we always went to, a new sushi place to go to together, a place we went to karaoke too! And I always went to grab a coffee from a particular place :), or a milkshake from a particular shop, he didn’t favor those places though. The thing that kind of peeved me a little, or at least came as a bit strange, was that while I was at work, he brought his female cousin out to all those places that him and I go to, and even brought her and introduced to her the places that I alone, favored, and that he did not particularly even like. I sent a text asking him how he spent his afternoon, but he replied saying that he was relaxing.

Later on, my boyfriend and I met up that day, and I asked him what he did that day. He explained that he went out with his cousin and told me all the places they went… Which were the places I showed him, or that were the places I always go to… I thought it was a little weird that he would take his cousin out to all those places. I also wondered why he didn’t just say he spent his afternoon out with his cousin, but just said he was “relaxing”. I guess I felt that those were places that him and I go together.. I suppose I’m jealous, but I’m not sure if I have grounds
to be. Or if I should just shake it off.

So, you jellies out there, tell me what you think of this? I’m not wanting to make it a big deal or anything, it is just a Friday night with me sitting here and pondering with a facial mask on :). I am just curious of what others think, or if my thinking is just strange.

I haven’t talked to him about this, but I’m not sure if it is a topic worth bringing up.

Thanks in advance for your thoughts ~

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