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Is there such a thing as being TOO comfortable with your partner?

Asked by livelaughlove21 (15724points) February 6th, 2013 from iPhone

Do you and your SO feel free to burp, fart, urinate, and even defecate around each other? If so, why do you think that is? If not, how do you feel about couples that do this? Is this being a bit too comfortable?

My dad has always been the type to let one loose at random times and no one ever acknowledges it; business as usual. I also know a couple that thinks it’s funny to burp and fart around each other and I’m pretty sure they don’t bother closing the bathroom door if it’s just them in the house – even if they’re not just peeing.

My husband and I have never (and will never) do this. I’ve never even done these things around my family, let alone someone I have sex with. I once accidentally burped in front of him and he said I turned red as a beet. I just don’t see why I’d need to be that open with anyone, even my husband. I’d like to keep some mystery in our marriage, so to speak.

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