Ack, @rooeytoo. You really don’t understand, do you? Could you never have experienced that absolute adoration that a man has for a woman he loves? How when he sees her pussy, it’s like all thought escapes him, and he is helpless. He’ll do anything to please her, just so she’ll let him be near, and hopefully, come inside?
It is an outrageous feeling. Completely out of control. Not rape out of control because the last thing you want is to hurt your beloved. But it is this unreasonable desire to merge with your beloved; a combination of lust and love that makes no sense and demands that you do whatever she wants. And you give into it absolutely willingly because there is nothing better in the world than to please her.
To think that it could possibly have anything to do with force or rape shows you have never experienced this in a man. You would never mistake it for anything other than what @Shippy or (I think) @Earthgirl mentioned (pussy ecstasy).
A woman could harness that energy, if she wanted. Send it in any direction. I think it might make @Mariah uncomfortable, so she tells herself her man is supposed to be in control, but that denies her own power, I think. When you don’t accept your own power, weird things can happen. The man gets away with things he shouldn’t and eventually you find yourself doing things that may not be so good for you.
The dance between the sexes is best when it is properly balanced. But pussy power is one thing that always goes one way. This is not to say the man does not have power. His power, however, is in other areas. Indeed, it could be in his penis, as some women (some, not all) are as enamored of a penis as most men are enamored of a pussy.
There are times when both partners are equally powerless over each other, and are equally empowered with each other. Personally, I like that the best. But I enjoy giving in to that wild and crazy desire for pussy—the smell, the beauty, the incredible desire that wells up in me. It’s totally crazy, and I have done crazy things for women when that desire is in me.
I don’t want to call it lust, although lust is a part of it, because a lot of people think lust is separate from love. The desire, though, for me, is a combination of love and lust and probably a lot of other things. My brain only lets me think about one thing. This woman. And if she is naked, her pussy is overwhelmingly interesting.
People make jokes about men thinking with their penises, and this is true, I think, but it isn’t a bad thing, necessarily. Sometimes, men get caught up in their sexual attraction without widening the focus to take in the whole woman, and mistakes happen. Men and women have sex when they really don’t know each other.
But other times, it is a complete thing, and when you give in to pussy power, it is a mutual thing. Each person is giving in to the power of the other. You give in. You give out. You put in. You put out. You become a miracle of unity through the physical connection of cock and pussy. And this miracle, or the hope of it, is what I think men are feeling when they feel lust, even if they have little conscious clue about what it really takes to make it happen.
Men want connection too. They are just a little more clueless and intuitive about it, and experience it as sexual desire. It is sexual desire, but there is more to it than that. The desire, however, is overwhelming to many of us, and that can be a problem when you don’t learn how to manage it. It can also be something the woman can use to control the man, if she wants.
But I wanted to know how much awareness women have of this. It is apparent that some women are aware and others are not. No judgement here. It’s just interesting.
And just because I see it this way, doesn’t mean it is true for everyone. I’d like it to be true just because I think the way I see things could help bring more understanding between the genders and within men. Men don’t like to see themselves as out of control. It’s unmanly, according to traditional thought. I actually think it is an attractive characteristic to some women. The idea that a man will do anything for them must be heady stuff. The knowledge that the pussy is the central symbol for this desire must be an incredible turnon.
From my side, finding a woman who was comfortable with my desire for her was incredible. A meeting of the minds and bodies. The intensity I always wanted. A gift that has lasted for years.
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