What do you think should come first in life, looking for love or starting your career?

I was reading an article on msn today about 20 somethings and the choices they have to make between love and their career. It mentioned that many twenty somethings have been told to do what’s best for them, and that we can wait to get married (in our 30’s) and that we should work hard to get to the top of the corporate ladder.

If we put work first we may miss out on love. And if we put love first we may miss out on our career. Why can’t we find both? Or is that the chance we have to take?

What do you think is more important to focus on in your twenties, finding love or your career?