Haven't heard from my boyfriend. Help?

Asked by brown_eyed_blonde (90) September 10th, 2013 from iPhone

I’ve just returned home from a 10 day girly holiday. I’m disappointed and very upset that I hadn’t heard from my boyfriend the whole time I was away. I’ve been home three days now and I still haven’t heard from him. We’ve been struggling with communication issues recently, and before I went on hol I brought it up to him that I wanted us to communicate more because I felt we were becoming far removed from each others lives and felt we would end up breaking up otherwise. He agreed to try and communicate more… So the fact that he’s not been on touch the whole time I’ve been on holiday makes me even more gutted. I could have died over there and he wouldn’t even know…

I see he’s been very active on social media too and seeing this makes me more upset as it shows he’s had to chance to get in contact but has chose not to. What is the best way for me to handle this! Should I mirror his actions and ignore him too (very hard as it hurts but may be the best thing to do?) or send him a message? (If so what would be the best mature thing to say?)