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Amo101's avatar

Could he be cheating?

Asked by Amo101 (151points) October 10th, 2013

My friend and I were talking and she was telling me about how she thinks he boyfriend is cheating, So I asked her how come.
She says he is always on him phone and sometimes ignore her when she asks him something.
Then she told me she went to delete her history off her computer and saw that he was looking at other girls profile pictures and clicked one of them and saw that the girl lives in the same area as where he is now.
So she asked him what are you doing he said just hanging out about to go by my aunt.
Then she said he never told her about a aunt that lives their only a few cousins.

Is he cheating or is she just exaggerating.

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22 Answers

syz's avatar

Why would we know? She needs to sit him down and talk to him about her concerns.

Headhurts's avatar

She could just be jealous and want him for herself. Trust no one until you see the proof for yourself.

JLeslie's avatar

He could be. No way for us to know for sure on those details. Sounds like it is possible though. If his aunt has children that would be his cousins, so the aunt is not necessarily a lie.

Doesn’t matter if he is, what matters is if she feels insecure because of his behavior then that isn’t good.

Seek's avatar

One can assume that if he has cousins, he would also have an aunt.

People look at people on facebook. It’s a social network.

People who demand 100% of one’s attention all the time, especially when one is on the phone, are annoying.

elbanditoroso's avatar

cheating… how do you define it?

If you look at another girl’s facebook page, is it cheating?

If you kiss her, is it cheating?

If you think about her but never put a hand on her, is it cheating?

If you have sex with her, is it cheating?

If you walk the other home from school, is it cheating?

The problem with your question is that we don’t know what the definition of cheating is, in your mind, and we don’t know what he is actually doing. So there is no way to decide on anything.

But the fact that she is worried ought to tell her that…. she may not have a boyfriend much longer…

josie's avatar

Where there are cousins, there is probably also an aunt.
Then again, he could indeed be cheating. Might as well find out now.

zenvelo's avatar

He could be. But more likely he is checking out if the grass is greener on the other side of the relationship fence.

It’s hard for us to say much more than this because we don’t know the people or the critical details.

rojo's avatar

Paranoid and exaggerating.

ucme's avatar

He could be anything.

Hallucination's avatar

for now, she might be exaggerating… she needs more proof in order to confirm that he’s cheating on her. talking on the phone doesn’t mean he’s cheating on her, he might be talking to one of his family members. ignoring her means either he’s a bit busy or is upset about something. don’t assume that he’s cheating just because he was looking at other girl’s profile pic… that girl might be one of his relatives. and why would you care? if he cheats on you he wasn’t good enough for her and never deserved her.

Main Idea: Have enough proof that he’s cheating and if he is, so what? he’s just a big jerk who never deserved her from the start. End of the story.

Katniss's avatar

If her gut says yes, then he probably is.

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