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Guys, if a girl is nervous talking to you, is it a turn off or is it cute?

Asked by illusionslies (586points) November 5th, 2013

I noticed that there’s this girl who is much younger than me in yoga that I go to, and every time I talk to her, her voice seems to shake a bit, she speaks in a very low key tune, smiles a bit here and there… It isn’t necessarily attractive but I find it heart-melting. Even though she doesn’t seem so intellectual (who knows if she is or not).

I wanted to know what others’ opinion is on this!

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Mama_Cakes's avatar

I don’t find it cute.

I find confident women attractive.

illusionslies's avatar

@Mama_Cakes Are you confident yourself?

LornaLove's avatar

What one person finds attractive others may find irritating. That is just the way it is.

SecondHandStoke's avatar

Depends on how long it continues.

Smitha's avatar

I think it is cute (am a female). It’s not necessarily a turn-on, but definitely not a turn-off. It could just mean she’s interested in you but doesn’t know how to proceed. Try to initiate a conversation and make her feel comfortable.

Seek's avatar

Shy chicks need love, too.

I’m the introverted, kind of afraid of people one. Though I’m told it comes off more as snobby. I’m OK with that, though. Whatever gets me through the motions of my day without having to talk to too many people. Anyway, my partner is the extrovert, and that’s good because he is outgoing enough for the pair of us.

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