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[NSFW] Why do all the male porn actors seem to need a hand?

Asked by ETpro (34605points) December 6th, 2013

Sure, it’s impressive that male porn stars can pound away for an hour or more without cuming. They certainly seem free of problems with premature ejaculation. Quite the opposite, they seem to be plagued with post-mature ejaculation. If fact, no matter how stunning, hot, and ready-to-trot the babe/s they boink may be, they seem incapable of getting off with them. Instead, they have to pull out of whatever orifice they have been banging and finish themselves off by hand. One might think this is all about showing that they really are cuming, but I don’t believe it is. Even when they are sliding their cocks between some big boobs where their member is always in plain sight, they still have to stroke their own meat to climax. What’s with that?

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bossob's avatar

Maybe they use de-sensitizing products so they can hold out a long time to get more video time? My wife knows my body well, but occasionally I’m the only one who can find the spot that will trigger an orgasm.

I thought the ‘money shot’ was a priority?

flip86's avatar

The cumshot is more than likely filmed separate from everything else and edited in.

mazingerz88's avatar

I need first hand data. ( LOL ) I need to do one porn scene. Or maybe two.

JLeslie's avatar

I think the film is edited so it seems like it is lasting much longer than it does. Just a guess. I don’t know much about that genre,

mazingerz88's avatar

Some porn scenes are shot with guys not using condoms. Guess that’s why the release shots show guys themselves facilitating it outside.

drhat77's avatar

law of diminishing returns, no doubt.
Seriously though, when it’s a job, it’s probably hard to finish. Also, consider that such things might test well in certain major demographics. I’m spit-balling here.

LornaLove's avatar

Because it’s a movie and all actors get performance anxiety in a movie.

Seek's avatar

Does anyone else question the logic of a porn shot with a guy using a condom, then finishing on the girl’s face and all in her mouth and stuff?

Also, so very much over the standard suck, fuck, face trope. It was old a long time ago.

filmfann's avatar

You are considering eliminating the money shot? How does one know the guy isn’t faking it?
I imagine it is also difficult to get aroused to orgasm when you have 20 people around you watching you.

stanleybmanly's avatar

Show business! That’s entertainment?

livelaughlove21's avatar

You’re watching the wrong kind of porn.

Then again, I’d think some people would rather see the guy pull out and cum all over the girl as opposed to cumming inside of her and the viewers only getting a grunt out of him. It’s porn, after all. Cumshots = good.

Or maybe that girl has been fucked by so many monster cocks that the guy can’t find enough friction in that used up hole to be able to cum.

What’s worse is when they start to go soft. That makes me immediately turn it off.

Seek's avatar

See, this is why I stick with BDSM. Lots of kinky fun, limited naked dudes, no cumshots.

livelaughlove21's avatar

Limited naked dudes?! Yawn city.

Seek's avatar

Like they even have attractive guys in porn.

livelaughlove21's avatar

They do if you know where to look.

ETpro's avatar

@bossob There are a couple of things that suggest that “money shots” are not what it’s all about. Consider the scenario where the make had been giving the female gagging deep-throat till she has copious quantities of slippery saliva coating her big tits. He then starts sliding his well lubricated, slippery cock between her equally lubed up boobs.His cock is on open display. He could cum and all wold see that she got him off. But instead, there is a jump cut to the moment of truth, in which his cock is no longer between here breasts, but in the good graces of his intimate friends, Rosy Palm and her 5 ugly sisters.

Next thing. Females have money shots too. Porn is notoriously lousy at even coming close to approximating them. We get a bit of dialog where she says, “Ooh baby, right there, Yeanha. Ah, ah, Umagahha! But then they continue on and the clip recycles with the same action and same dialog. It’ obvious fakery.

Theorfe.. accuracy of money shots, male or female, must not matter that much..

Haleth's avatar

Tristan Taormino is a sex writer who has also directed and appeared in a couple porn films. She wrote about the experience in one of her books, and basically, they do multiple takes to get everything right, just like they would for a regular movie. The actors might have to do the same thing again and again and again, long after they’ve gotten tired of it. Guys have a refractory period, so it’s not like you can do ten takes of the money shot one after the other. They have fewer chances to get it right. So I’m guessing they do it that way because it’s easier to get the shot.

mattbrowne's avatar

It’s psychological influencing hormones. Pressure to perform. Fear of failure.

ETpro's avatar

@Haleth Thanks. That makes a great deal of sense. Not a great deal of hot porn, but at least sense. :-)

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