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(NSFW) Women, what would you think of a guy who is extremely inexperienced sexually?

Asked by XOIIO (18328points) March 2nd, 2014

Another question I would have asked on a fake account if I hadn’t stopped caring about pretty much everything.

I have virtually no confidence, in part because I am not “handsome”, I am not physically attractive, and because of my extreme lack of sexual experience.

It has been around four years now, maybe more, maybe a bit less, since I had intercourse for the first and only time, no other sexual activity, not even a kiss. If there is a point where you get virginity back I am pretty sure I have hit it.

It is extremely unlikely, and when I say extremely I mean you probably have better odds of being hit by lightning, that I will have a relationship again, if I do it will be a long time from now I’m sure, so I am wondering, from a woman’s point of view, what would you think of someone who has had no contact with the opposite sex in a situation that was either sex, or just attraction (making out or whatever else fits in that category), and no relationship (though that’s a given) for four years? How about six, or eight, or ten years?

I figure it just compounds my problem, that if by some strange freak of nature event someone does actually get interested, they will probably think it is extremely weird, if not, I know for sure I will not be able to satisfy them sexually for a bit until I become accustomed to the physical stimulus sex gives. (in other words not being able to last long).

So, discuss, give your opinions, and if you think a few weeks or a couple months is a long dry spell, you haven’t seen anything.

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