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I like this guy...?

Asked by sara_bjelanovic (11points) May 4th, 2014

Okay so I really like this guy, but he’s two years older than me. he doesn’t really even notice me that much. I’m 13, really fit and healthy (not bragging about anything here), tall, academically successful – straight a’s, I respect those who respect me, I am sensible but fun, sort of popular, have Instagram, Kik, Snapchat (he also does), don’t say omg or lol, I’m a dog person, I do, however, have a very large fear of big birds- swans, ibises, etc. (and pigeons), I prefer snakes and spiders over pink and cats, I’m an outdoors person who always prefers the forest over the city, and I’m very hygienic. Is it the age or what? Thanks:)

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ZEPHYRA's avatar

Fine, you are a cool kid! What is the question? He doesn’t notice you? His bad luck, move on, have fun, flirt with others! There is so much more that should be on your mind right now. If he does not see what’s great about you, someone else will. Ignore him back!!!!!

GloPro's avatar

@sara_bjelanovic You appear well spoken, but that’s a hell of a run-on sentence. Check your comma vs. period usage. I love your confidence and willingness to take ownership of your good traits.

I’m not sure if I understand the question. Are you being rejected? Do you interact with him already? What advice ate you seeking?

Crazydawg's avatar

At your age a 2 years age difference is a literal lifetime apart distance. If I was 15 I seriously doubt I would be looking to date a 13 yr old no matter how terrific you were.

marinelife's avatar

Yes, it’s the age.

flip86's avatar

Enjoy being a kid while you still are. Boys should be the least of your worries. You have a whole lifetime ahead of you to deal with relationships.

AshLeigh's avatar

It’s the age. At 15, kids don’t want to date 13 year olds. Just as you would not want to date an 11 year old.
When you’re older, two years won’t be a big deal, but there is so much that changes between the ages of 13 and 15.

Kardamom's avatar

2 years makes a huge difference at this age. If you were 15 and he was 17, it would be more like you’re on the same page, developmentally and experience-wise (with the world and possibly romance). He most likely sees you as a kid sister, if he notices you at all.

Paradox25's avatar

Does he know you like him, and do you two even socially interact with each other? You can’t just expect somebody to ‘notice’ you out of the blue.

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