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I need help with this girl. Please help me before tomorrow!

Asked by tomironi123 (10points) June 10th, 2014


For the last 5 months I have really started liking this girl in my school. She started to show some interest as well, and we even found out that we have so much in common. Literally, everything is the same. It was the first time I really started liking someone and it was difficult for me to cope with the pressure on talking with her. However, she didn’t look like she minded it. About ⅔ months ago she received a letter from me which explained the whole thing. I wrote how I like her and everything. She just replied with some comments like ‘Oh… that is sweet of you’. However, she said that she felt she was too young for dating and stuff like that. So I have left it and rather recently, she started to show some interest again. My friends heard her speaking over about ‘him’, and I know that she doesn’t talk to any other boy at all, except me. So I have decided that this is the best time to tell her that I like her.

After school, we were going to talk whilst walking up the hill. We have this huge hill between two of our schools. I wanted to lead up to telling her that I like her. So I talked about a ‘girl’ (which she doesn’t know it’s her) and how I have ruined my chances with ‘HER’. I spoke of how I feel guilty that I didn’t spend enough time with ‘HER’ and that I didn’t give ‘HER’ enough time. So then the girl that I like started saying things how she can relate to my feeling and how she thinks it’s not me that is being bad, it’s the girl that is not realizing. Of course, the girl I like thought I was talking about someone else. Then I was about to tell her that I was actually talking about her but unfortunately, due to some bad circumstances it didn’t work out. The girl I like also said this…

“I still respect you for trusting me with a girl you like. If it was me, I would have told you about him, rather than who he is. I don’t need to know who it is because it’s your life.”

Which threw me off, and I started to automatically think that she doesn’t like me. However, I am so confused. She done all of this stuff like had her friends asking me. She also never cared about anyone as much as me. Whenever I was sad or lonely she was the first to walk up. She always says ‘hi’ enthusiastically and knows that she can trust me. She ALWAYS smiles at least when we see each other. She also always tells me that she misses talking to me. I am really confused on whether she actually likes me or not. Before I go to school tomorrow, I want to know your opinion. I know for a fact that tomorrow I will tell her that I like her because I had enough of this prolonging, but I really want to know if you guys think there is another approach I should take towards her other than from mine.

Thanks a lot,


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