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Dated any psychos lately?

Asked by zenzen (4082points) August 22nd, 2014

I had to tiptoe out of that one after a few weeks.

How was your experience?

Were there any resisual echoes months or years later or did you manage to get away unscathed?

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Dutchess_III's avatar

Haven’t dated any, but I had one get all fixated and shit on me. Scary.

Mimishu1995's avatar

I haven’t dated anyone. But I remember being friend with a psycho. Glad I made it out alive.

Hypocrisy_Central's avatar

Not that I know of; I try to stick with manic depressants and paranoid schizophrenics.

fluthernutter's avatar

Except for my husband, I seem to only date psychos.

The first guy I dated used to tell me not to go out with my friends, because he wasn’t going to go out with his friends either. Ummm…I never asked him not to go out with his friends?

When we broke up, my (technically) ex-fiancĂ© slashed up a painting I had given him—with his sword. The fact that he even had a sword in the first place should have been the first clue.

To be fair, I’m a bit nuts too.
No swords though.

ucme's avatar

That’s one of the benefits of being married (22yrs) no dating required, psychos or otherwise.

SecondHandStoke's avatar

NSFW

There was Chiemi, but that was some years ago now.

I made the mistake of saying “you look familiar, have we met before?” because she looked familiar to me, and I wondered if we had met before…

So she returns to me later and we start talking. Things move very fast. The fucking started out rather normal but felt wonderfully dirty. I was hooked.

Chiemi meets my girlfriend. Quickly becomes her and my girlfriend. After a little while I break the rules and continue to see Chiemi by myself.

Half Japanese Chiemi was a total tramp. There were telltale rugburns on her back and knees. One time she showed up at my door with a bloody eye from being throttled by another lover. Sometimes she had rope burns, sometimes huge ugly bruises.

Chiemi preferred it in the rear because that was the available form of birth control when she was in the mental hospital. I didn’t even care to ask now many “boyfriends” she had in there. In there, I mean the psyche ward.

She was covered in self mutilation scars. She even tried to break her own forearm once. She had connections at Emory hospital through her mother. Had some guy there cast her forearm even though nothing was wrong with it.

Sex with Chiemi became more and more like wrestling. We could never figure out who was top and who was bottom. There were a lot of deliberately wrecked orgasms, choking, biting. Lots of ugly words. Once while using my fingers she asked that I press so hard that they “break out of her back.” Another time I had electric clippers nearby. Took a chunk of her hair out during a vulnerable moment. Well, anything to keep things lively.

Once after sex she immediately called another lover to describe what we had just done. Heh.

Chiemi wanted a new branding. We go to the brander’s house. She sits backwards on a chair, shirtless. Mr. Brander takes a blowtorch to a bicycle spoke until it’s white hot. Draws the design into her back. The room fills with the smell of burning flesh. Smoke rises from behind her head. Chiemi doesn’t flinch, doesn’t even change her breathing. Wherever she went I knew I couldn’t join here there.

One time she was late coming over because she went home with a man she had met on the plane coming back from Japan. Whatever.

Another time she decides to pay me a visit in a rubber minidress. She is questioned by the police on suspicion of solicitation. Well, she thought it was cute anyway.

The relationship imploded because the constant struggle for dominance between the two of us eventually became exhausting. I stopped answering the phone. She got the hint. Not like she didn’t have plenty to keep her busy.

Last I heard she finished school and was catching babies in Emory’s maternity ward…

ARE_you_kidding_me's avatar

That’s an adventure I missed out on. Not psycho, crazy but not psycho. Bipolar is probably her reality.

Psycho is different, they lack proper empathy and play with people like toys. They wreck lives and nothing is beyond them. They can be hard to identify and I have only met (and identified) a handful in my lifetime. Most are not killers but they can be. I’m always on the lookout for them because I want to be where they are not.

Dutchess_III's avatar

When I was finishing up my college courses, in my early 30’s, there was some really WEIRD guy in one of my classes. He completely fixated on me. He’d stare at me the whole time. I didn’t realize how crazy he was and in the beginning I made the mistake of being nice to him.
For our final, the teacher handed out the paper with the instructions and we were to do it at home and turn it in the last day of class, the following week.
As class was ending I noticed a piece of paper on my desk with a hand written note filling the whole page. It was like, “We were meant to be together. If you’d only give me a chance to prove it, you will be so happy….” and on and on. ... It was written on the back of his final exam.
The next day I called the teacher and told him what Crazy had done, and that he probably wasn’t going to be able to turn in his final exam since I had it. Teacher told me to just mail mine to him, and excused me from the last class. He said something like, “People like that do NOT belong in college level courses, and I don’t know why they even admitted him.”
It was pretty freaky.

zenzen's avatar

Really great stories, guys.

Dutchess_III's avatar

It kind of scares me to think what could have happened if I’d gone to that last class. He would have been desperate, probably, to find out where I lived. Desperate to “prove” his love, knowing it was his last chance.

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