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(NSFW) Does it bother anyone else when a bed is too loud during intimate moments?

Asked by Blackberry (33949points) March 21st, 2015

Loud beds sometimes get on my nerves to the point where I lose concentration and it ruins the moment for me.

I don’t know, is that normal?

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SQUEEKY2's avatar

As long as it is just us in the house , nope not at all, but if we are trying to be somewhat quite then yes very much so.

Hypocrisy_Central's avatar

Only if there is a chance the noise will be heard by someone else that I don’t want to know what is going on.

gondwanalon's avatar

Constant loud squeaking can be annoying.

dxs's avatar

It was annoying for me to hear it coming through paper-thin walls while trying to sleep when I used to live in a hotel.

rojo's avatar

Not something I have ever been concerned about either because I was “distracted” or it was not an issue.

Guess I have been lucky.

Pied_Pfeffer's avatar

I don’t know if it is normal, but it is a considerate reaction if other people might hear.

Earthbound_Misfit's avatar

A loud squeaking bed would result in me laughing. I don’t think me laughing raucously is conducive to great sex.

If other people were likely to hear it, it would also result in me feeling inhibited so yes, a noisy bed would bother me.

ucme's avatar

Nothing, & I do mean nothing, can distract me when i’m humping & certainly not when i’m about to cum.
If the kids happen to walk in, woken by the noise, then mummy & daddy are exercising, “git ya arse back to bed, ya got school in the morning”

ucme's avatar

@anniereborn I know I am, but you’re straying off topic a little.

anniereborn's avatar

@ucme It’s in social, we can do that.

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elbanditoroso's avatar

The bed or the people?

I hate being on a bed held up by springs where with each thrust you hear metal against metal. That’s awful, distracting, and really breaks a mood.

People having sex are hilarious to overhear.

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janbb's avatar

I need to do some experimenting and get back to you on that.

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

Never had a loud bed. Maybe I’m doing the horizontal bop wrong? And how did we get to personal attacks in a sex question? That sounds wrong.

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ucme's avatar

Headboards, remove the headboard.

Dutchess_III's avatar

It would bother me.

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rojo's avatar

@ucme but then what would you tie off to?

ucme's avatar

@rojo The kids :D

anniereborn's avatar

@ucme you really are funny in this thread.

kritiper's avatar

I bothers me, even when we are the only two people in the house. What is worse than that is when a get a sudden cramp in my foot whilst in the groove.

rojo's avatar

@ucme Hey, you kids! Each of you grab a rope end and hang on, mummy and daddy need to work out!”

rojo's avatar

yahuh is too.

anniereborn's avatar

The one thing I never ever find funny is joking about child abuse. Yeh, I know, you can all tell me to lighten up. Or to say I should concentrate on world hunger or some such thing. Point is, it’s not funny to those of us who have been abused.

ucme's avatar

@rojo Yeah, might skip that part.

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Esedess's avatar

Yes, it bothers me. It’s part of the reason I’ve always liked my beds to be on the ground instead of a frame.

ucme's avatar

Come along children, up the wooden hill to bedfordshire, awww…sweet childhood memories.

Hypocrisy_Central's avatar

A bed that creeks and squeaks with each thrust adds some validation you are riding her hard to put her away wet.

Dutchess_III's avatar

Oh brother. Another of those things women don’t particularly care for. All the noise is just food for your male ego.

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