Social Question
How do I know if we are in friend zone?
First of all, please let me apologize for my grammar since English is my second language. And here I go!
That’s it. I now officially found my long-awaited Mr. Perfect. Was it worth waiting? Yeah, definitely! Because he is smart, kind, gentleman, emotional, sensitive, good-looking, actually handsome but humble, understanding, listener, never miss small details and what’s more I enjoy having chat with him and I am never getting bored just because I like being around him that much.
I’ve known him for almost two years.
But the problem is he doesn’t know that I am really into him. We hang out a lot during the day. We share the same shuttle when we return home from work. Sometimes, we hang out after work hours. We go to cafe, restaurant.
I don’t know whether we are in friend zone. He is one year younger than me and I am manager, he is senior. This shouldn’t be the problem!
If this is the case and we are in friend zone, here is why:
– He doesn’t text.
– When I ask him to go someplace, he doesn’t respond (not all the time).
If we are NOT in the friend zone, here is why: (Hope I don’t fool myself)
– He looks out of the corner of his eye to see what I am doing with my phone
– He tells me the thing that most of his co-worker might be suprised to know
– He shares his concerns with me
– He invites me to have a coffee with him
– He invites me to go to dinner with him
– We can talk about any topics we want. There are no quiet moments
I am not sure if he is interest in me or if I’ve been on his mind or if we are in friend zone. He might think I don’t look but deep inside I am attached to him.
Unfortunately I am weak because I am afraid to know the answer whether he wants me as well.
I want to try anything to be with him but I don’t want to ruin our friendship. I value him greatly and it would grieve me very much if any harm were to destroy it.
He is the only one that I want. And I don’t know what to do. I just can’t move..
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