Married jellies, which one of you has changed more over the years? You or your spouse?

(Married jellies…or jellies in long term relationships.)

Ideally, both should change together. But even so, I always feel as if one changes more than the other. Sometimes for better and sometimes for worse.

Would you agree or disagree?

If you agree, has this change helped your relationship? Or has this change created problems?

If you don’t agree, why not? Have neither of you changed? Or have both of you changed the exact amount?
(I’m a bit incredulous about either, but I’m curious to hear what you’d have to say.)