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Have you ever given up on a long-term friendship?

Asked by dammitjanetfromvegas (4601points) February 3rd, 2016

I’m trying to wrap my head around some revelations I’ve had concerning my best friend of 38 years. I’ve realized she’s not the person I used to love.

She was exaggerating truths to prove a point and admitted to feelings about me she’s had all these years. I thought being best friends was about being completely open and honest with each other. Apparently that wasn’t the case with her.

I’m thinking about slowly distancing myself because I can’t do fake. I’m honestly hurt and I can’t see myself being close with someone who can’t be honest with me.

Have you given up on a relationship you’ve had for years? I’d love to know what happened and/or how you handled the situation.

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