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What would you do if you accepted a job but have an opportunity for a better one?

Asked by chelle21689 (7907points) February 8th, 2016 from iPhone

Some of you that are following my search for a new job know I have accepted a great opportunity with a University with higher pay and good benefits. I’m set to start in two weeks. After being a temp for one year and no benefits this is pretty amazing.

Anyways, my top choice…very well known school The Ohio State University requested to do a digital interview for a first round. If selected after reviewing my video interview they will want to meet with me.

What a good dilemma to have but very torn for me. Two great opportunities but OSU’s position is in line with what I like doing such as traveling, recruiting, the name brand itself, higher pay $5,000 more than what the university I will start at is hiring, and benefits are about the same but OSU is a tad bit better.

Is it bad if I did a video interview and pursued this opportunity even though I accepted another? Am I being greedy?

Advice from my sisters say it’s bad to burn bridges. My friends say to do what’s best for me and it’s about what advances my career.

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Earthbound_Misfit's avatar

Do the interview, but keep in mind a ‘bird in the hand, is worth two in the bush’. If you’re going to jump ship, now is better than after you’ve started and been trained. Sometimes this happens. In my experience, the university will go to their next preferred person and give them the job if you turn them down now.

If this second job is your dream job, I don’t think you can not try for it. You’ll spend a long time wondering, ‘what if’. So give it a go and see what happens. You might not get the second job! Then again… you might!

chyna's avatar

You don’t have the job at OSU and might not get it. I don’t see any problem with doing the video interview, but don’t tell your other job that you don’t want it because you might get a better job.

Hawaii_Jake's avatar

Move forward with whatever you need to do to start the new job you already have received, and do the video interview with OSU. If you get an offer from OSU, make a decision then. Don’t anticipate in advance of what might happen.

JLeslie's avatar

I agreed do the interview if you are very interested in the position.

DrasticDreamer's avatar

Yep, I agree with everyone else. It’s a good idea to do the other interview if you’re interested. It’s your life and you don’t always get repeated opportunities.

stanleybmanly's avatar

Both universities want the best candidate. You are entitled to want and seek a better job. The trouble is that both you and the school are committed. Consider your position were the first school to inform you after hiring you that a more qualified candidate appeared after you and the job was no longer yours.

rojo's avatar

Happened to me.

I was newly married and had a job that required me to stay out of town all week returning only on the weekends. On one Monday I did not go but stayed in town and looked for a job that would keep me home.

I went to about a dozen different places trying to find work in my chosen occupation and a couple of others as a last resort when none of them panned out. That evening I got a call from one of the secondary places offering me a job as a draftsman and accepted the position.

The next day one of the other companies called offering me a position as a job superintendent; more money, in my field, I assumed more opportunity for advancement. I turned it down because I had already accepted the other job.

In retrospect, I should have probably accepted it. Not that the first job did not see me through several years with appropriate advancement and pay increases and was a product engineer when I quit but when I finally burned out and decided to move on back to the field I had gone to college for I was starting out all over again against younger applicants who would accept less money and, while I had gained experience in management, I was lacking it in the specific field and had not kept up with the progress in the intervening years.

Cupcake's avatar

That’s awesome that OSU wants to interview you! Congrats!

msh's avatar

Please take the time to do a bit of research about OSU.
History of this position.
Length of employment averages.
Fluctuations, etc.
Overall outlook, and in this particular area of employment.
Hiring from within.
Recidivism.
It might be stepping-stone position to move on from, once your foot is in the door.

Do your homework on each job before deciding.

chelle21689's avatar

Thanks again for the insight everyone. I am sticking with Capital and going in with my full focus on that, I think it won’t be good if I do it with one foot in and one out while still seeking OSU. I jumped to the conclusion that OSU was automatically better because of the name which sounds really good BUT overall my smaller private university is probably the better choice. I get more days off, it’s more overall HR rather than just recruiting which I like so I can expand, I don’t have to pay hundreds of dollars for parking or walk 5 blocks, and I’m not even sure if pay will be much more.

Earthbound_Misfit's avatar

Sounds like you undertook a thorough evaluation process and reached a conclusion that works for you. Glad you’re now feeling more settled about accepting that first job.

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