How do you feel when someone hug and nudge you with her breasts?

If you don’t like it, would you prefer I detach them first?

If you have issue with a woman’s breasts nudging you…opt for the handshake geeting. Me…I go for the bearhug evertime.

@janbb , It is easy to give a firm hug without chests coming in contact. If a man does such a thing it is considered inappropriate. If a woman does this to me and it is someone I don’t know well, I tend to feel a bit uncomfortable.

I admit to a tinge of disappointment if they don’t make that delightful parping sound

@LostInParadise: How???? My breasts are situated on my chest, and unlike the apparently multi-talented Little Penguin, I am unable to detach them. Unless you include “shoulder grasp” in your definition of hugging, I am at a loss.

Not every hug is meant sexually. The fact that @Unofficial_Member seems to be interpreting it sexually is the real problem.

As @janbb notes, women have breasts – nothing they can do about that. And a hug is seen as a function of endearment and closeness, which may or may not have anything romantic or sexually charged about it at all. In fact, my guess is that in 96% of cases, there’s nothing sexual at all.

My advice to @Unofficial_Member – grow up. Take the hug for what it is – a token of friendship. No more, no less.

@canidmajor , If I just put my forearms around someone’s back, our chests do not touch. I can hold the position firmly without squeezing the person closer.

Who doesn’t like boobies?

This thread is dangerously approaching the Christian side hug thing.

Stop thinking about the breasts touching you and enjoy the human feeling of being touched and the emotions that prompted the hug.

Oops, @DoNotKnowMuch

I find that most people hug turned slightly to the side, where you may contact boob, but not boobies.

* shrug *

If I’m hugging someone, it’s because I want to be hugging them. At no point will I be offended by the body of a person I’m hugging.

I’m not a ‘huggy’ person and I’m frequently coerced into hugging client/customers. Just because you want to be hugging them doesn’t mean they want to be hugging you.

Just saying – that’s not a critique of anyone’s hugging ability or proclivity.

I understand. I grew up in a “huggy” culture. I actively avoid touching other humans now.

@LostInParadise : I don’t consider a “firm hug” to be equivalent to putting my arms around someone’s back without our chests touching.

@LostInParadise, I’ll be seeing some friends later so I can test drive this. I still can’t envision how this would work without contact of boobage. But then, mine are stupidly large and often in the way.

A hug is a hug. I’m not going to be popping a boner if some boobs separated by many layers of clothing touch my chest just like I don’t when my female GP checks my balls.

Not want to feel out of place here, but yes I do enjoy the bulge as and when I’m offered a hug by a lady. Unless of course I’m accompanying my grandma to her get-togethers with her touchy feely girlfriends!

@janbb and @Cruiser lol. I don’t dislike it. In fact, I find it funny and interesting. The reason why I ask is because I have seen many Westerners do this but never talk about it. As an observer, me and my friend (all Asians) wonder if those females know the effect of what they were actually doing, or if men who were hugged in such a way actually enjoy it but will never speak of it.

@Joell lol. I don’t think ‘theirs’ retain the size and texture where you can have a feel so don’t worry about it.

It sounds like you are passing off the blame to the female. You being weirded out or aroused by boobs is entirely on you. It is entirely your problem.

@johnpowell I never see that as a problem nor I will ever blame women for doing that. I was just curious why nobody ever mention such a thing or perhaps they have gotten used to it to never realize such a thing in a different way.

Boobs behind clothing = hug
Naked boobs against bare chest = boner.

I love bumping boobs with my lady friends.

@LostInParadise: Saw my friends, tried this out. My friends range from 5’3” to 6’ tall. In no case was there not chest contact. We chalked it up to the fact that I am barely 5 feet tall and have a big ol’ rack that’s just always out there, unless I’m wearing a sports bra, which I don’t most of the time.
Even a half-assed hug will involve boobage, unless both parties contort dramatically.

If Dog had wanted you to get all excited when a well-endowed woman hugs you, he’d have made you a typical young, male . . .
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Think Aunt Bea @Setanta.