What is wrong with a guy having a lot of hair?

I am from Africa, and I have a natural fade flat top. If you google “daniel sturridge haircut” that is the kind of hair I have. I am always being told to cut my hair. They tell me things like, having a lot of hair will get you stopped by the cops, it makes you look like a bad person, things like that. They fail to understand that my hair does not define who I am. Everyone has a style that fits them well.

People in my Church are the worst. They keep trying to force me to cut my hair. They say a man should have his cut very low. One thing a noticed is most men at my Church is bald or balding. What is worst is most cut their kids hair and fail to give them a hairline which is pushing a lot of their kids hairlines back. If the Women are allowed to have different hairstyles, why can’t we?