Are Flutherites obligated to be on here everyday? What do you think is reasonable?

I had been recently attacked for “popping my head ” in Fluther Forum once in a while?
Who said that I was obligated to “dance to another’s tune” so to speak.
How often do you go on Fluther, and why, and why not?
What is reasonable , what happened to free choice?
Tell me what you think in a positive frame of mind .
Please “no” negative answers, as these types never help anyone.