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dulcecorazon's avatar

Are you happy with yourself, what would you change?

Asked by dulcecorazon (105points) August 8th, 2008

So far I’m happy with myself, and i’m looking forward to maybe make some change.

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kristianbrodie's avatar

I’m pretty happy on the whole, but I sort of wish I had a bit more self-assurance and confidence. I feel that my lack of self belief has held me back.

dulcecorazon's avatar

don’t let it hold you back, motivate yourself, chin up, enjoy life.

gailcalled's avatar

@Kristian; start by asserting yourself when you write. Say, “I wish” and not “I kind of wish.” Even when wishing, don’t be wishy-washy, if you get my drift. Confidence usually comes with age. How old are you?

hearkat's avatar

Overall, I am finally happy! But I wouldn’t mind having a better metabolism!

generalspecific's avatar

Honestly, the only thing I dislike about myself is my boobs. That’s all I’d change. Being chubby doesn’t even bother me.. I’m just pretty happy with myself overall. but the boobs could be better.

augustlan's avatar

@general: Don’t fret about your boobs. Whether you think they’re too big or too small, there will always be someone for whom they are just the right size…trust me on this!

augustlan's avatar

I wish I didn’t suffer from anxiety.

loser's avatar

No, I’d rather be someone else.

dulcecorazon's avatar

Do you like your nose?

loser's avatar

Nope! Can’t stand it! It’s totally crooked! I swear, I’m a troll!!!

dulcecorazon's avatar

Don’t think like that you’re a beautiful person and if others cannot see it then that’s their loss.

wrestlemaniac's avatar

I’ll second that truth. :)

loser's avatar

Aww… Thanks! You guys are great for my ego!

dulcecorazon's avatar

Not ego, the truth and that you just must believe in yourself.

wrestlemaniac's avatar

True don’t judge yourself on mostly how you look, some people see others for what they are by look at what’s inside not out all the time, so be yourself. :)

jlm11f's avatar

I wish I had a normal sleeping schedule and wasn’t typing this response at 5 am. to answer the general Q, i am happy with myself but also very self critical. I think life is all about trying to make yourself better, so you should always have some personal goals you are working towards. Currently, still struggling with the sleep issue though :P

gailcalled's avatar

Life is also about the enjoyment of living in the present; long-term plans are wonderful but if you are constantly looking forward, you miss this moment. Now gone…I mean this moment. You get my drift. When I was a teen-ager, I worried about knobby knees, crooked hairline, sweating, and being too tall. Really ridiculous.

jlm11f's avatar

@gail – Agreed. There must always be a balance between the two extremes.

wrestlemaniac's avatar

you only have one life to live enjoy it while you can.

dulcecorazon's avatar

But you turned out fine.

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