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Zachary_Mendes123's avatar

I've been told that in Swedish my last name means cockroach. Now I wanna change my last name. Should I?

Asked by Zachary_Mendes123 (1237points) April 2nd, 2017

I wanna change my last name to something like…..I don’t know but I don’t want to have a last name that means cockroach.

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Zaku's avatar

Let’s start with, is your name Mört or Kackerlacka? If not, have you researched what your name actually means?

Note that Mört also means soft, tender, or succulent.

Zachary_Mendes123's avatar

My last name is Mendes and yes I googled it. It means cockroach. I’m discussed.

Earthbound_Misfit's avatar

Well cockroaches here (in Australia) are New South Wales footballers. They can’t beat our Queensland cane toads, but they are mighty fine men and fabulous footballers. Also, cockroaches have amazing survival abilities. Aren’t they touted to be the only thing likely to survive a nuclear holocaust? So they are tough. It’s all in how you look at things Zach. Don’t sweat the small stuff matey.

BellaB's avatar

Whoever told you that Mendes is Swedish for cockroach lied to you.

http://en.bab.la/dictionary/english-swedish/cockroach

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Separately, don’t let what other people say about your name influence you.

Zaku's avatar

Where on Google do you see Mendes meaning cockroach. In what language? I see no such meaning in Spanish, Portuguese, nor in databases of surname meanings.

Kropotkin's avatar

Yes. Change your name.

You don’t want to be known as cockroach, do you?

Zachary_Mendes123's avatar

@Kropotkin Nope I really don’t. What should I change it to though?

Kropotkin's avatar

@Zachary_Mendes123 How about Cucaracha.

Espiritus_Corvus's avatar

Jesus. Don’t you have other things to worry about? Fuck, man.

How about Pruitt? That means fart in Swedish. Bice means shit. LOL. I went to school with Harvey Bice. Fett means Fat. Fett Motors. Or Knulla, which means fuck. Zack Knulla. I like that. Fitta means cunt. How about Fitta? You like Fitta? Zachary Fitta. Sounds about right. LOL.

As far as I can tell, and having spoken Swedish for the past 35 years, Mendes has no meaning at all in the Swedish language. This whole string is based on bullshit.

Show me a link.

Zachary_Mendes123's avatar

@Espiritus_Corvus I got no link. a friend told me. I say that Fitta is my favorite Swedish word.

Espiritus_Corvus's avatar

Your friend is pulling your leg.

Zachary_Mendes123's avatar

@Espiritus_Corvus My friend is mainly yanking my chain.

Mimishu1995's avatar

Then why believe him in the first place? He was trying to put you down. Ignore him and his lie.

Unofficial_Member's avatar

Why must you care about what some people think about your name? Name is subjective, different people have different feelings about it, it’s also artificial, the wording and meaning behind it is created by other human, so why should you even adopt the value set and made by other human? What you, yourself, think about your name is more important.

Someday, someone could have created the extra meaning of “mendes” as brilliant, good, etc. Name, just like language, is keep on evolving. And what if I tell you that the name “mendes” have beautiful and brilliant meaning in other parts of the world.

I think what is important of a name is how euphonic it is. The meaning could be whatever you like to put it but if it sounds rough in the ear it’s a bad name. For example, the name “Melody” is pleasing to the ear, while the name “Hargharg” sounds rough in the ear.

cazzie's avatar

I back what @Espiritus_Corvus said. I’m over here in Norway and Norwegian and Swedish are very similar. Mendes does NOT mean cockroach in Swedish, or Norwegian, or Danish.

Kakerlakk is cockroach in Norwegian. Kackerlacka in Swedish. Not even similar to your name.

Mendes is a Portuguese name, and it is quite beautiful, if you ask me.

Seek's avatar

I study names for fun, because I’m a dork.

So, back in the sixth century, the Visigoths were kinda “in charge” in Spain, having been allowed to move in by the Romans in exchange for military service. The Visigoths were a Germanic people. The last Arian Christian king, Liuvigild, had two sons: the younger was Reccared, and the elder Hermenegild.

Reccared and Heremengild were associated with the King formally, thus ensuring a line of succession, and each were given areas of regency in which to rule.

Arian Christianity states that Jesus (the son of God) was subject to God, not on “equal footing” with him as it were. It’s based on the teachings of Arius, if you’d like to read more about it.

Hermenegild, after marrying and gaining his regency, converted to Chalcedonian Christianity (his wife’s religion), and started appointing Chalcedonian bishops in his regency. Chalcedonian Christianity had different ideas about how the divinity of Jesus worked. You can look it up if you like.

Hermenegild’s wife was told by her family to reject her father’s religion and go with her husband’s family’s. She resisted. Hermenegild was ordered by his father Liuvigild to convert back to Arian Christianity. He said no.

Liuvigild was not best pleased. He appointed NEW bishops, Arian ones, and Hermengild had his regency revolt against Dad. So dad paid off Hermenegild’s mercenary troops to make them go home, banished Hermenegild and later had him executed.

The names “Mendez”, “Menendez”, or “Mendes” are Spanish homages to Hermenegild, who was later considered a martyr and sainted by the Catholic church for not denying the divinity of Christ.

MrGrimm888's avatar

Your name might mean “great person” in another language.

What’s in a name? A rose by any other name…

Zaku's avatar

@Seek Yep!

What I really want to know about this is what the OP thinks he found on the Internet that confirms Mendes means cockroach in anything other than his so-called friend’s prank. Did the friend make a fake web page showing this for April Fool’s Day? Because I found zero evidence other than OP’s claim that it does in any language.

Without evidence, I’m thinking the OP should be far more worried about how much he believes what people say and is ready to take major action on it, as opposed to being able to do and trust his own research.

Zachary_Mendes123's avatar

@Zaku I don’t really believe any of my friends anymore.

Zaku's avatar

@Zachary_Mendes123 Sounds wise, for such friends. Did you really find confirmation online? Can you share the link?

Zachary_Mendes123's avatar

@Zaku my friend told me about what my last name meant and he didn’t include a link.

cazzie's avatar

Don’t believe shit your shit friends tell you. Knowing the effect it would have on you, he was no friend at all. Tell him, with all the words you can, how it made you feel.

Zachary_Mendes123's avatar

@cazzie I’ll cuss at him.

cazzie's avatar

That’s not going to help.

Kardamom's avatar

Feel free to pay money to Change Your Name Legally and then wait for that same “friend” or another friend to tell you that your new name means poop in Swahili, or mucous in Portuguese. Your so called friend was insulting you. Try to find some decent people to be friends with and don’t be so gullible.

Espiritus_Corvus's avatar

“My last name is Mendes and yes I googled it. It means cockroach. I’m discussed (sic).”

“I got no link. a friend told me.”

IMO: Attention Whore

Dutchess_III's avatar

“Mendes is a common Portuguese surname, originally a patronymic, meaning Son of Mendo or Son of Mem.” Source(name). And see what @Seek said.

Someone yanked your chain. There are many different emotional reactions you can have:
Anger
Sadness
None
Laugh
Shrug
Which ever reaction makes you feel best, consider choosing that one.

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