(NSFW) Do you sometimes think of things not related to sex at all when you're having sex?
Like, more details of an upcoming trip you’re planning, things that need to be done around the house, just mundane things?
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Yes, I often start having thoughts about what I want to be doing when I’m done. I’m not particularly into sex.
Unfortunately, it happens and it’s frustrating when it does.
No. I’ll just stare at the ceiling and think of nothing if the sex is unsatisfying. I wouldn’t even fake a moan (I have learned that lesson).
Of course not! I’m a guy!
No.
I suppose it is possible to have low talent sex, but I have never experienced that.
I have always been too involved with the passion and exhileration to have my mind wander off.
When the girl’s on top. I try to think of other things sometimes, to last until she’s done…
A really good golf shot often comes to mind when I hear my balls slapping on her arse.
I am a guy. Usually I have things the other way around. Thinking of sex when I am not having it.
I had sex once. I was thinking about how much it would end up costing me.
You might be doing it wrong.
LOL! Or someone else is. Or i’m tired and never wanted to have sex in the first place. When you’re with some one for a decade or two not every encounter is going to be earth shattering.
One jelly mentioned long ago something about giving head for what seemed like hours and her jaw was aching and all she could think of finally was “would you just hurry up already.” She must have been doing something wrong.
Lol I think that was me. I blame that one on my ex. I don’t have that problem with Matt.
Got cha! But you still must have done something wrong for you to not be thinking about how great it was!
And THEN there is the jelly who said she finally realized that her abusive, selfish, ex husband wasn’t making love to her at all. He was just using her to masturbate in. She must have been doing something wrong.
I’m just still kind of have my back up over @bob_‘s comment ”You might be doing it wrong.”….AND I LOVE BOB!!! Go make him a sammich.
Cheezboiguh for bob! Cheezboiguh, cheezboiguh, Coke, Coke, no Pepsi.
I think the Pepsi generation was the eighties. I’ve moved on. Actually, truth be told, I do the Dew. Shhhhhhhhh.
I heard a woman say once that it took her husband so long she had time to make a grocery list. I still laugh about that.
I remember thinking the baby would wake at just the wrong time.
I remember thinking about kids and bills and stuff sometimes. Worried that they could hear us.
After the kids were born and were toddling my husband got upset that I wasn’t into spontaneous sex any more, even if they were in bed.
^If the situation were reversed, would you not feel upset as well?... Would you not feel rejected, unattractive, unloved, unwanted, depressed?
No. I would be glad that my husband did not want us to just spontaneously drop to the kitchen floor or throw down on the dining table, taking the chance that that our kids could walk in on us. Would you do that? What do you think it would look like to the kids?
Perhaps you misunderstood my comment.
@Dutchess_III Very true. Little pictures have big ears, and bigger eyes, and even bigger mouths. When there are children around, a couple can’t just do their thing anywhere in the house at any time.
Yeah Dutch. I must have misunderstood… Sorry…
I figured you did @MrGrimm8. No worries.
a friend whose husband insisted on spontaneous sex on the couch. She was uncomfortable but you know. Their little son walked in, saw them and started crying and went back to his room. Mpm later talked to him. He thought Mom was getting attacked and it really scared him. :(
@NomoreY_A Sorry but I can’t resist – the phrase is “Little pitchers have big ears”. As in, the handles of a pitcher are like ears, and they’re out of proportion. Pitchers don’t have eyes or mouths, so your analogy took a really strange turn there.
@dappled_leaves You are correct, now I look like a moron. Which is not unusual for me.
LOL! We all look like maroons from time to time @NomoreY_A! It’s all good. ;)
Sometimes, I even look like a macaroon.
@NomoreY_A Not even slightly.
Now I want macaroons.
I know this happens but as a man it is super frustrating. To the point where I’d rather not even have sex at all knowing that my partner doesn’t want to have sex.
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