Do the police have to talk to the other person involved in a record?

If a guy owes a girl a lot of money, and harassed her for it, but in the end she willingly let him barrow money, then she goes to the police station after a certain amount of months because he starts to avoid it, so the police make her record it, but she says she doesn’t want him contacted, and they tell her they don’t have to, if she doesn’t want them to, they reinforce that statement that he won’t be contacted, it was just sit on file, anc they tell her at the end of the month, if he doesn’t pay like he said then she tells him she filled out a report and it will make him pay faster, and the cops say it’s just in the best interest, and they tell he it’s a better idea to put in on file. Then the cops continue to ask, if any crime was committed, and they say if the situation escalates to call them.

Does that mean they are being honest about not contacting him, or do they have to contact him by law?