After being mistreated by the moderators at Quora for the 3rd time, I started looking for an alternative. Yahoo answers isn't to my taste, several of the others I found in searches are no longer up...is Fluther the best Quora alternative? The layout is ok, but it seems pretty slow compared to Quora.

I was banned 3 separate times at Quora, the last time permanently. They never told me what I did, and would not discuss the bans nor would they allow me to defend myself- from whatever I was accused of. I am a reasonable person, retired, ex military, and to my knowledge I never broke any of their rules. I had a large following and had been there for over a year. Friends tell me it is because I have conservative values, but I have no idea if this is true. I’m not anti-gay, and I’m an atheist, so I’m not a hard-core conservative in all respects, so…I just have no idea what I did wrong. I want a similar site that will communicate when there is a problem and which will allow self defense if there is a need for such.
So, is Flutter the place to be? Are there others that might be more active?
How can we make Flutter more active?