When is it time to seek out a therapist?

Asked by Sunshinegirl11 (1110) October 20th, 2017 from iPhone

I’ve really been struggling with developing close relationships for years now. You might have noticed, I’ve been using fluther to ask questions on relationships but it also has been a way for me to vent.

Sometimes I wonder what is wrong with me. I feel really stupid about seeing a therapist and I don’t want anyone to know. I also don’t know where to find a therapist or how to afford them.

Also some days I am feeling great and I’m so motivated, other days like today I’m feeling really down and feel like doing stuff that doesn’t require work… like watching tv.

Any advice?