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[Likely NSFW] Are porn actors likely to be good at sex? (With reference to Donald Trump)

Asked by elbanditoroso (22869points) 1 month ago

Last week there were several articles about how Trump’s lawyers paid a porn actress $130,000 to keep quiet about a tryst with Donald Trump. NY Times article

That’s not what I am asking about.

My question is this: Suppose it’s true that the president did have sex with the porn actress. Was it likely to be of high quality?

Is it a given that someone in the adult business would be good at what he/she does with a partner? Or is it simply acting—just another day at the office?

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Darth_Algar's avatar

They’re as likely to be as good at sex as anyone else. Skill isn’t really a consideration in that business.

ARE_you_kidding_me's avatar

You would need some sort of rubric to measure what “good sex” is

MrGrimm888's avatar

There’s no substitute for experience. Most actresses I see appear to be really good at oral. As far a Intercourse, a girl could just lay there like a dead body, and it would still be good. So. It’s pretty subjective.

To me. Unlimited access, whenever I need is “great at sex.”

Men are under far greater a burden, in the performance department. Male actors would probably last longer, but quality may be average.

JeSuisRickSpringfield's avatar

Whether someone is “good at sex” depends on what you want out of a sex partner. Are you looking for a particular body type or physical feature? Someone who is willing to perform a specific sex act? Bragging rights? Or maybe you just want someone who is willing to lay there and take it whenever you want. Porn stars might be able to provide some of these. And even if not, societal myths about porn stars might be enough to make someone desire sex with them under the assumption that they can provide “good sex.”

Trump is clearly ruled by his desire for acceptance and approval (though he seems to interpret fame as either a proxy or a substitute) and studiously maintains a public facade (thus his obsession with people who diverge from the narrative he wants out there), so it could be anything from the social cachet of sleeping with a porn star to the trouble of operating under a Madonna/whore complex. Or maybe he just thinks that’s what “real men” do. After all, a big part of his public facade is adherence to a very specific picture of masculinity.

Dutchess_III's avatar

I imagine, as a prostitute, they’re just going through the motions. It probably doesn’t mean any more to them than washing dishes or vacuuming the floors. As long as the man has an orgasm it’s considered successful.

Darth_Algar's avatar

For that matter most male porn actors are just going through the motions as well. You can pump a guy full of viagra and go through the mechanics to induce ejaculation, but you rarely get the sense that ether the woman or the man are truly aroused.

Patty_Melt's avatar

Maybe she initiated their contact. Lots of women have billionare fantasies.
Maybe that’s why they tried to hush her, because she wanted to brag that she had him.

Dutchess_III's avatar

What does who initiated the contact have to do with anything?

flutherother's avatar

I just wonder what happens to his hair during these trysts.

Patty_Melt's avatar

@flutherother, have you seen the movie Trolls?

Dutchess, I was just thinking if she initiated, then it wouldn’t be about whether as a porn star she was better, but, as a billionaire, did she expect/get better than average from him. See, expectations are most likely with the hitter, not the hitted.

seawulf575's avatar

I guess it’s like anything else…the more you practice the better you get. But also like anything else…if you do it too much, you get burned out on it.

flutherother's avatar

@Patty Melt I haven’t though Trump looks a bit like a troll.

LornaLove's avatar

It’s kind of obvious really isn’t it. If he asked for an hour of anal and she delivered then yes, she would have been great at sex.
Sex is so much more than a patter, which I find porn is. You know, the close up of the blow-job for most of the video and then bang bang bang for the rest. All male POV views that please the majority buyer, men.

Dutchess_III's avatar

I don’t think there is one particular recipe for “great sex.” What’s great to one person may not be so great for another. Also, it’s the spark between two people. If the spark isn’t there then it’s just going through the motions which can lead to climax. And that’s the main goal, isn’t it? To achieve that incredible, amazing feeling no matter how it happens?

Dutchess_III's avatar

@Patty_Melt It kind of sounds like you’re trying to blame her, and not the person who willingly conceded to the affair, even though he was married.

Patty_Melt's avatar

Blame how? I didn’t blame anybody for anything.
Nobody was forced.
I only said maybe it wasn’t Trump said, oo, porn, I bet she is good, but maybe she said, Trump is a bad ass billionaire, that would be something I haven’t done.
How is that blaming?
I am only supposing how it might be that things took place.
I don’t know anything about the story beyond what I read within the thread, so I wouldn’t have enough info to blame anybody anything.

johnpowell's avatar

So now Republicans are all “your bedroom, enjoy it, if consenting adults”..

Silly Putty is harder to shape into hypocrisy.

The party of Jesus sure as fuck has no shame.

Dutchess_III's avatar

Well, it’s the Bible that made sex a sin. It’s not. The thing is, he made a promise to whoever he was married to at the time to not have sex with anyone besides her. It’s wrong to break promises.

JeSuisRickSpringfield's avatar

@Dutchess_III Do we know he made that promise? If he and Melania have some sort of agreement regarding who they can have sex with, it probably wouldn’t be public.

Dutchess_III's avatar

Was he married to Melania or Ivana or Marla?

Darth_Algar's avatar

Let’s not pretend that Donald and Melania’s marriage is anything but transactional.

Dutchess_III's avatar

Relevant

According to Stormy Daniels [The sex] “... was textbook generic.

Bet Trump got up a head of steam over that comment!

rojo's avatar

^^ I tried to look it up and find out just exactly “textbook generic” sex was but, unfortunately, all the information points back to this sex act between these two adults and I still don’t have a textbook explanation for what it is. Maybe I should try the dark web.

Dutchess_III's avatar

Missionary position was my assumption.

MrGrimm888's avatar

^I’m thinking doggy. That way Trump wouldn’t have to see her reaction. I doubt he’s ever come close to seeing a look of satisfaction…..

Patty_Melt's avatar

I think textbook generic is likely a way of saying short of spectacular, 68 comes to mind.

JeSuisRickSpringfield's avatar

I figured the “textbook generic” comment was an attempt to say “no, he didn’t ask me to do anything weird.”

MrGrimm888's avatar

^Could be…

Dutchess_III's avatar

@Patty_Melt you mean 69? Now thinking of Trump engaging in 69 sex totally GROSSES me out!

MrGrimm888's avatar

^You don’t think you’d like a close up view of Trump naked from behind? How unpatriotic….

Dutchess_III's avatar

Gag me. I can’t stand the clothed version I see from the front.

Dutchess_III's avatar

Not even going there!

Dutchess_III's avatar

Oh god. I went there. HOW can she stand it?

Patty_Melt's avatar

I said 68, because I meant 68.
The art of you do me, I’ll owe you 1.

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