How many men went to marriage counseling with their partners?

I am going to Christian marriage counseling but
my hubbie of 30 years thinks it is stupid. I have
learned alot about myself I didn’t realize and no
I don’t sit there and bash my husband I love him
I just want to make a somewhat stale marriage
better. Did you go with your wife…would you?
If your husband refuses to go should that tell you
something?