Wishing someone happy birthday on Facebook, should I do it?

If you want to tell him happy birthday, do it. Harmless. A fb message is also appropriate, like hey long time no see, how the heck are ya…..If you want something or someone, go after it/ them!

It’s only pathetic if he doesn’t message back and you keep messaging, so all good.

Three years later? Sure, say happy birthday. Don’t expect anything to come of it.

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Years ago, a friend of mine went out with a guy. He asked her out again. She couldn’t decide how to respond. A year later she called him to invite him out to dinner. He’d met someone new, married and was about to become a dad.

If you’re interested, don’t dawdle.

I’m a Birthday whore, so I
Ike heading “Happy Birthday” even from people out of the past. If he doesn’t respond, don’t go any further, but it can’t do any harm, that I can see.

I’d just go ahead. I don’t think it’s liable to reduce the chances for a connection. (If he’s the sort to think you’re obsessed and be put off by a Facebook birthday message… good riddance to whatever chance there was!)

How will you feel if you don’t get a response? If you’d be ok with that, then do it. If not, maybe you shouldn’t.

No, don’t. Put it behind you. What you are doing is manufacturing expectations in your mind, and there’s a hugely high percentage that you’e just going to be disappointed.

Let dead dogs stay dead.

Three years is a very long time to be disconnected from someone, they for the most part move on. I personally would not.

He ghosted you. He wasn’t interested in you, whether it was because you weren’t clear, or simply because he just wasn’t in to you. Let it go.