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April 5th, 2018
The supervisor at work kept staring at me. She knows I’m married because my wife work with me. But sometimes she makes me work away from my wife and always stare when we are together. My wife complain that she was nice to her when she start working there, but as soon as I came to work there and she knows we are together she don’t acknowledge her and give her a mean look.
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Are you gorgeous? I mean if you’re gorgeous then tell your wife to find a new job and you go after a promotion! haha
Thats not exciting, we just got the job and its uncomfortable to work when she keep staring at me.
It sound uncomfortable and like she is maybe attracted to you. I don’t see this going well. Any chance that you could go work somewhere else?
No, i work with my wife so she can get to work. She dont drive and i’m her ride there. It was bad enough yesterday when she wouldnt let my wife to have lunch and tell her to leave early while i stayed and work the full shift. We work graveyard shift until 5 in the morning.
My answer would be NSFW obscene.
You might have to talk to your supervisor but that could really backfire. I would just try to ignore it and make sure you keep a professional distance. If she actually makes a move on you, report it to HR or your union.
Okay, being serious now, does she stare at the other people or men, or just you? Be honest please.
From what i experience, its just me. I was working in front of her office and she was staring at me the whole time through the glass mirror. We are probably the same age around 25, everybody else is older or is 18 or 19
Do you know anyone there who is your friend, and her friend? Maybe they can ask her what she thinks of you, and that the see her looking at you. In a joking friendly way. Or your wife can just walk up and say ‘stop staring at my husband please’...haha
@KNOWITALL That’s kind of tricky since she is their supervisor.
I know but he has to do something, or ignore it and let his wife be treated poorly or be uncomfortable. To be honest, I’m a starer and don’t even realize ir because I think a lot, so it’s kinder for someone to say ‘did you need something? You’re looking at me.’ If she wasnt mean to his wife, I’d suggest he ignore it.
Yes, I know. It’s a toughie. Maybe as you suggest, just going up to her and asking, “Did you need something?” casually could be a good idea. I just wouldn’t bring a third party in unless it becomes harassment.
My wifr thinking about quitting the job instead, its only our 2nd week working there but her hours are getting cut because of it
I think you should both look elsewhere and maybe make a switch when you have other jobs.
I agree that you both should quit as soon as you can find other jobs. If she does this kind of thing to your wife, what will she do to you if she makes advances to you and you reject her?
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