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What does this dream mean?

Asked by Anonymousgirl88 (176points) April 23rd, 2018 from iPhone

My friend Jessica had a dream around Christmas time, and she just told me about it not, it’s about a current situation in her life with a guy who asked her for money in the past. She started talking to this guy again around October. My friends, and I told her, “What if you got pregnan,” and we warned her about another consequense that could happen as an outcome to her situation. Here’s her dream; It was pitch black, some guy kept saying, “You really want to know!? He will just keep taking, and taking, and taking, and taking, and taking, and taking and taking.” (She said she was tossing, and turning that night). Jessica comes from a religious family, so she thinks that dream was a warning. So another qestion she had for me was; why wasn’t she warned in her about the consequences my friends, and I say could happen? Does God warn people in other ways to about what could happen?

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Whiterose_2004's avatar

I might not know what it means but I have a feeling that it’s a warning. I’ve had dreams like those before. Dreams like those always have a meaning and sometimes they are not good.

Patty_Melt's avatar

It means she was getting so many warnings from her friends she started hearing them in her sleep.

kritiper's avatar

The blackness is the unknown, and her fear of it. His voice is calling her into it. Her subconscious is producing a warning of trouble if she goes near the darkness!!

MollyMcGuire's avatar

It means nothing.

rojo's avatar

I am somewhat confused by your question. You say that she is again interacting with someone who has asked (and maybe borrowed?) money from her in the past. And you and your friends are warning her against possible pregnancy and some other unidentified and, implied, more serious consequence than that. I am not following how you go from lending money to pregnancy and worse. Could you explain?
Also, it seems that she is more concerned about why her dream did not include the warning that came from you and your friends. It sounds to me like she is implying that your warnings are inconsequential because God did not also warn her about them. But, taking is kind of a vague, amorphous term. It can involve “taking” money, “taking” virginity or “taking” something or someone else.
Dreams are the brains way of coping and sorting out information it has received during the waking hours. I don’t know if you can literally interpret a dream sequence but as others above have said, her brain is warning her to believe what she has heard and is herself thinking, whether or not she will acknowledge it.,

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CWOTUS's avatar

Not only do I not know what the dream means, I can’t even understand what you wrote.

Maybe you should try writing this in your native language, and we’ll see how that goes.

LadyMarissa's avatar

I don’t know that God warns us directly. He gave us free will to make our own decisions. I know throughout my life that my conscience warned me what was wrong & when I ignored that warning, I usually ended up unhappy!!! I now call it my “gut feeling” & I can say that my “gut feeling” is right MORE often than it is wrong!!! I just have to listen to it!!! I believe her “gut” was trying to tell her something & she wasn’t listening so it chose to get her attention in a better way…her dream.

Anonymousgirl88's avatar

I know it’s a warning, the guy has borrowed money from
her in the past, and the dream warned her that he will keep taking from her (most likely meaning money, since he borrowed money from her before). And she had the dream the night before they became intimint again. @ rojo – You got that right for the most part. The reason me, and my friends associate him taking money from her with pregnancy is because, if he takes money from her it shows he disrespects her, so that is why we warned her of a possible pregnancy, and other serious consequences. We told her he doesn’t care, and that he would knock her up and dip. @ LadyMarissa – I agree. My friend is wondering why the other warnings weren’t adressed in her dream. The only warning that was adressed in her dream was the warning about him taking money from her. And she believes that dream came from God. But as I said, my friends, and I have warned her about other things too like her getting pregnant and other severe consequences. So therefore she was wondering why the other consequences weren’t adressed in her dream. Even though God gave her a direct answer about what the guy will do, i.e – taking and taking from her.

Anonymousgirl88's avatar

I just don’t know how to answer her question. But correct me if i’m wrong. But my take: Her dream is warning her that he’s going to keep taking from her, but just because her dream didn’t warn her about the other consequences my friends, and I adressed, doesn’t mean there not risks to worry about.

LadyMarissa's avatar

The other warnings weren’t addressed in her dreams because the money issue was bothering her worse than the others because she knows her friernds & family are right & she’s CHOOSING to ignore their concerns.. Her own concerns created the situation where those concerns were addressed in her dreams. Not just her boyfriend, but every person she knows will “use” her to get what they want. I learned that the hard way. When it comes to loaning money, I’ve since made it a habit that IF the bank won’t loan them money, I can’t afford to loan them money. OR, if I don’t have the money to GIVE them, I definitely do NOT loan it to them!!!

You cannot FIX this girl’s problem unless this girl is you.This guy will continue to use whoever will give him the money until they are flat broke & then he will move on until his next VICTIM!!!

Anonymousgirl88's avatar

So he will continue to use her, until she gets tired of it, and says no. And then he will probably disrepect her boundaries too, and there are high chances that he is the type of guy to knock her up, and leave her too. Since he doesn’t care.

Anonymousgirl88's avatar

@ LadyMarissa – I also heard that when you give a man money, you can’t get them to leave. And my friends, and I have conserns about not only pregnancy, but we feel like this guy could be abusive too. So if that’s the case, i’m wondering if he will harass her for the money when she says no, and become pushy and abusive. You just never know what someone is capable of doing, and I don’t think she will become flat broke, unless she stops working.

LadyMarissa's avatar

Oh yes, he’ll harass her begging for more. She should just become very good at looking him in the eyes & saying “I’d love to help you but I’ve given you so much money that I’m now broke.” Once the cash cow dies, he will move on to somebody who does have & willing to give it to him. I bet he’s spending her money on drugs. This guy is a bum & I hope she realizes this soon!!! Unfortunately this will have to happen in HER own time & you cannot “force” her to understand. Some people insist on learning things the hard way!!!

Inspired_2write's avatar

Analyzing I would say the pitch black meant something bad ( dark).
The guy kept talking..hence he won’t stop until she puts a stop to it .
Question ” You really want to know”?...Do you really want to know the truth about whats really going on?
Other warnings…she probably did get them in her dreams but didn’t understand the message?
Not all dreams are cut and dry answers, some are symbolic and one has to figure them out.

Anonymousgirl88's avatar

So the voice saying, “Do you really want to know!?” means: Do you really want to know what’s going on. And things like becoming a single mom, and other severe things are just the out come of what’s going on.

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