What is sexy/attractive to you?

Simple, Mrs Squeeky.

Awwww

Thats just like asking what wine I like best.

Muscles, oiled up, tanned skin, completely hairless, and a big, juicy

^^ Tentacle??

Forearms are one of the first things I notice. Then the shoulders. But that’s just the physical. I can tell within a few minutes of talking to some one if there is any possibility. The personality trumps all physicality.

Realism. I don’t care for plastic surgery upgrades.

Men: intelligent, quick witted, wide shoulders, strong forearms, nice smile.

Women: intelligent, quick witted, strong hands, little to no cosmetics, nice smile

Our saucy maid from below stairs…shit, you said not to be crude.

Sense of humour
Caring nature
Adventurous
Dark hair/eyes
Smile

Some people see scars as a badge of honor. Some see scars as a blight.
For me, scars are an aspect of life which happen, and are inconsequential to looks, but how someone with scars carries them makes a difference to me.
Embarrassment, trying to hide scars, that leaves me unimpressed. Somebody who forgets they have scars, treats them no differently than eye color, that is attractive to me.

To me, a sexy man is a busy man, not a greedy man who works any hours to take all the prizes, but a man who applies his whole self when something needs done, and knows when it is time to kick back and enjoy time off.
Sexy is a man who doesn’t whine about what irritates him, but doesn’t apologize for crying over heartbreak.
Sexy is a man who knows himself, and possesses confidence, but is not an ego maniac.
Provided he has those qualities, his eyes are what draw me first. Muscle tone is second.

I think my sexiest quality is eye contact.
I never shy away from a direct look.

God I did @Patty_Melt. It got to the point where I simply refused to make eye contact with any man that I did’t know personally. Any eye contract would have them instantly next to me, certain I was coming on to them when I wasn’t, then getting pissed when they sensed a “rejection.”

Your words and demeanor have to be as direct as your eye contact.
I had no qualms about saying things like, “I’m here alone on purpose. I’m leaving alone too.”
Also, I was a tough little badger, and I did real damage to men who thought they could pressure me into changing my mind.
I filed my nails into points, needle sharp. I had spent a lot of time when my nails were short, punching with my fingertips as one would with their fists. Once I had those nails long and shaped, I could punch into a throat to vertebrae, if I wanted to. I never did that, but I have drawn blood.
A big dumb guy once thought he would hit on me behind my boyfriend’s back. My bf was known to not mess around when he was mad, and people didn’t often try to cross him.
After that one attempt, stupid realized he would rather face my bf, than mess with me.
A lot of men hit on me, over three decades. I didn’t tend to take it as a personal affront, so much as they took a shot. I was like a feisty kitten at a bowl of milk. Another kitten comes along. I growl, and if they come closer claws flash out. Nothing personal, just an attempt, and denial.
A guy got in my cab once.
He offered me two hundred dollars to let him see me lift my top. I declined. He opened his wallet.
Holy macaroni there was a lot of cash in there. He said if I would show him, he would hand me his wallet I could remove however much of that cash I wanted.
I declined, and he was nice about it, and when I got him home he paid, tipped and said goodbye.
Most of the guys are not hyenas. Some are, most aren’t.

Man

Woman

In general, regarding sexy people, I like a sense of humor that matches my own, I like smart people who are not smug about being smart, I like someone who is truly interested in me (as opposed to me just having some kind of crush on them and them not having feelings for me) I like someone who shares a lot of my unusual interests (I always find it exciting to find people that are part of my “tribe”) and for physical traits I like beautiful eyes, terrific smiles, and lovely hair if they have hair, but I like bald men too. Being British helps ; )

So Alan Rickman and Fran Drescher are my top 2 sexiest men and women, but I have other people that I find sexy too.

Patrick Stewart

Coty de Pablo

Jonny Lee Miller

Lucy Liu

Lauren Bacall

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Alan Rickman was off the charts sexy.

@Kardamom There’s no way you can convince me that Fran Drescher is British! :-)

Tall, smart, considerate and thoughtful.

Val Kilmer in Willow:.

@janbb No she’s not. Ha! Not even for one second, but she is gorgeous, and funny, and smart, and kind. If she was British, I’d probably switch to the other side, because it would put me over the edge.

I’m more of a chest-person so any relevant topless, sweaty-looking men will be considered sexy. I also like men that use rough language, have demeaning personality on the outside (but actually weak as kitten in the inside), as well as the one that is dominant in bedroom.

I like a man who projects confidence, competence and strength. “Demeaning” personality @Unofficial_Member?

Some people have ‘that’ kind of fetish, @Dutchess_III. Where you get the feeling you’re being ‘dominated and owned’ with a touch of masochism but they’re all actually just a facade and unseen paradox in reality since like I said he’s “weak as kitten” in the inside. He can be seen rough on me in the public but actually very loving, child-like demanding, and obedient when he’s at home with me and nobody’s around. I love the unique dynamics.

Men: extra pounds and resemble Jimmy Buffett. Blue or green eyes. Strength to lift logs and start fires in a fireplace. Balding. White teeth. Big forearms.
Women: sexy to ME? If I have to think of stuff I’d say green eyes and tanned skin?

witty sense of humor
compassionate
intelligent
creative
silly
fun
open minded
spontaneous
confident yet humble
passionate about what they love
great appreciation and joy of music

longer hair
glasses
british accent
gorgeous eyes
androgyny

bonus:
plays a musical instrument or sings

This guy

Not SPAM. That’s never sexy.

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